Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 3)
Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 2)
Carry forward behaviour.
Some people treat the new members differently, just as they did at the time of their marriage. Most of the mother in law behaving with their daughter in law like their earlier life. In this case, the daughter-in-law feels uncomfortable in the restricted family environment and that is why the debate starts in such a family. Every family member should understand that, if they were faced to much restriction in their life then they should not restrict the other person and also should not carry forward such thinking and behaviour. Over time we must adopt the changes of society and freedom.
Misunderstanding.
This is very important issue in married life. One misunderstanding can lead to destroy the life of both family. There have already been various incidents in our surroundings. There are various reasons for misunderstanding such as external relations, rare communication, self / old thinking, social media influence, lack of understanding ability, selfish behavior etc. We must try to understand the reason behind such behavior before the final conclusion of one's behavior to avoid misunderstanding.
Different Earning.
Everyone needs money for fulfill their own dream. Each family member has a different source and variation of earning. And earning more also creates unnecessary trouble in married life. Every couple should understand that, their earnings amount should always available for their family. There is no value of that money if your money is not available for home. Before marriage or after marriage, you should save money for your family.
Ego.
This thing every person should have with different level. But you can learn how much and how to handle the difficult situation. In married life you should not carry your ego every time. Marriage is all about love, understanding and adjustment. If any family member is egoistic then not one can stop fighting in family. Everyone should be aware of such people because you never know when his ego will be awakened.
Communication Gap.
Communication is very good source of understanding each other. The communication goes wrong due to various reasons or the gap of communication is increasing day by day. Various issues, work schedules, misunderstandings, poor hearing ability of the other person always leads to troubled family life. Some people do not communicate with their partner due to their ego or to teach a lesson but this type of thinking leads to more misunderstandings. So, try to communicate with each other for better married life because good communication resolve the problem.
Intermediator.
Intermediator is play very important role while fixing marriage. They have good knowledge of both the families. As an intermediator some marriage beuro also work. One mistake of intermediate will destroy the entire life of anyone. Every intermediator should take care of it while fixing marriage because this is not a one or two days matter.
Decision.
It is very important to take the right decision when deciding a marriage. Your happiness is depends on your decision. You should seek advice from your family and experienced person before deciding to get married or before finalizing your decision to marry. Some people suffer their entire lives due to a wrong decision.
Comparison with others married life.
Some people compare their lives more than others. Mostly this is happen with neighbour or brother. Due to such comparisons, unnecessary fighting arises in the family. There are various reasons for comparison. Sometime this comparison gets aggressive mode and disturbs the marriage life. Therefore, it is better to avoid comparison with the other and enjoy with whatever you have. Try to set some goals for your better married life and achieve your dreams.
Confidential Things.
Everyone knows very well Confidential thing must not disclosed with anyone. Confidential things happen in every couple and family and such things should not be disclosed to third person. When confidential things are disclosed to another person, then there are definitely misunderstandings among the members of the household and a quarrel arises in the marital life. Personal and confidential things should not disclosed by any couple because its matter of others faith.
Trust.
Two unknown person come with each other to spend their entire life. They bind their knot with trust. Due to some misunderstanding, ego, financial situation, freedom, less family time etc. married life comes in trouble. Due to the same some people can lose their faith from their life partner. In such a situation we can find the proper reason before the final conclusion. Because your life partner swore to spend their life with you.
After understanding this, we should not repeat such mistake. One wrong decision can spoil your entire life. I have tried to explain for why marriages fail. Every time the situation and causes are different but we can save someone's life before something goes wrong. This is a very important decision in a person's life. When anyone is suffering from this condition at that time then the single person is not involved in it, both the family and their relatives also suffer. So think before marriage because this is the new beginning of life. Which connects two hearts throughout life.
