Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 3)

 

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 3)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 2)

Carry forward behaviour.

Some people treat the new members differently, just as they did at the time of their marriage. Most of the mother in law behaving with their daughter in law like their earlier life. In this case, the daughter-in-law feels uncomfortable in the restricted family environment and that is why the debate starts in such a family. Every family member should understand that, if they were faced to much restriction in their life then they should not restrict the other person and also should not carry forward such thinking and behaviour. Over time we must adopt the changes of society and freedom.

Misunderstanding.

This is very important issue in married life. One misunderstanding can lead to destroy the life of both family. There have already been various incidents in our surroundings. There are various reasons for misunderstanding such as external relations, rare communication, self / old thinking, social media influence, lack of understanding ability, selfish behavior etc. We must try to understand the reason behind such behavior before the final conclusion of one's behavior to avoid misunderstanding.

Different Earning.

Everyone needs money for fulfill their own dream. Each family member has a different source and variation of earning. And earning more also creates unnecessary trouble in married life. Every couple should understand that, their earnings amount should always available for their family. There is no value of that money if your money is not available for home. Before marriage or after marriage, you should save money for your family.

Ego.

This thing every person should have with different level. But you can learn how much and how to handle the difficult situation. In married life you should not carry your ego every time. Marriage is all about love, understanding and adjustment. If any family member is egoistic then not one can stop fighting in family. Everyone should be aware of such people because you never know when his ego will be awakened.

Communication Gap.

Communication is very good source of understanding each other. The communication goes wrong due to various reasons or the gap of communication is increasing day by day. Various issues, work schedules, misunderstandings, poor hearing ability of the other person always leads to troubled family life. Some people do not communicate with their partner due to their ego or to teach a lesson but this type of thinking leads to more misunderstandings. So, try to communicate with each other for better married life because good communication resolve the problem.

Intermediator.

Intermediator is play very important role while fixing marriage. They have good knowledge of both the families. As an intermediator some marriage beuro also work. One mistake of intermediate will destroy the entire life of anyone. Every intermediator should take care of it while fixing marriage because this is not a one or two days matter.

Decision.

It is very important to take the right decision when deciding a marriage. Your happiness is depends on your decision. You should seek advice from your family and experienced person before deciding to get married or before finalizing your decision to marry. Some people suffer their entire lives due to a wrong decision.

Comparison with others married life.

Some people compare their lives more than others. Mostly this is happen with neighbour or brother. Due to such comparisons, unnecessary fighting arises in the family. There are various reasons for comparison. Sometime this comparison gets aggressive mode and disturbs the marriage life. Therefore, it is better to avoid comparison with the other and enjoy with whatever you have. Try to set some goals for your better married life and achieve your dreams.

Confidential Things.

Everyone knows very well Confidential thing must not disclosed with anyone. Confidential things happen in every couple and family and such things should not be disclosed to third person. When confidential things are disclosed to another person, then there are definitely misunderstandings among the members of the household and a quarrel arises in the marital life. Personal and confidential things should not disclosed by any couple because its matter of others faith.

Trust.

Two unknown person come with each other to spend their entire life. They bind their knot with trust. Due to some misunderstanding, ego, financial situation, freedom, less family time etc. married life comes in trouble. Due to the same some people can lose their faith from their life partner. In such a situation we can find the proper reason before the final conclusion. Because your life partner swore to spend their life with you.

After understanding this, we should not repeat such mistake. One wrong decision can spoil your entire life. I have tried to explain for why marriages fail. Every time the situation and causes are different but we can save someone's life before something goes wrong. This is a very important decision in a person's life. When anyone is suffering from this condition at that time then the single person is not involved in it, both the family and their relatives also suffer. So think before marriage because this is the new beginning of life. Which connects two hearts throughout life.

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 1)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 2)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 2)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 2)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 1)

Interference of Parents.

Parents guidance is more important in decision of marriage. But after marriage we should not too much interfere in children life. Due to too much interference some unexpected problem creat. I know when daughter goes with her husband then parents feels lonely at that time. They should communicate with her at that time. Give her time to get mixed up with a new family member and time for enjoyment of her new life. Give him/ her chance to take their own decision of life. You can guide them whenever they need to.

Pressure and demand.

Some couple demanding unnecessary things to their partner after marriage like dowry, impractical life and unaffordable things. Because of this, men have to go through trouble with women. Women pressurize the husband to fulfill their demands or the husband pressures his wife. At this time, both of them should take a decision according to their economic condition of the house or the prosperity of the house.

Demand of independent family.

Nowadays the demand for independent family has increased more. People think that there is more progress with an independent family. This is a matter of broad discussion. But this is a very important reason to bring a rift in the relationship. We should know that only a few families can progress in this. Independent families always face much more trouble than joint families. This is what our children learn from us. It will also impact on our future.

Old and New Thinking.

It is good to have new thinking. But with new thinking, we should also consider the thoughts of the people of old opinion. When no one can adjust with anyone thought then problem starts in relationships. Whenever we have discussions with them, it is important to have a peaceful discussion. Some time we should adjust with their thinking and some time they should accept new thoughts. For maintaining good balance between old and new thought this is important. 

No respect for each other.

Respect is a big word. No one has the right to behave abusive towards their partner. In some male dominated families, women do not get respect. Same thing happen with father and mother in law. Because of this quarrel happens in family. We should give respect to them also.You can always consider them as your own father and mother. Father-in-law and mother-in-law should also respect to their daughter/ son in-law.

Less Adjustment.

Marriage is all about adjustment. When two different unknown person and families come together and start their life and building new relationship, it is not as much easy as we think. when we are not try to understand our new family member then every family member suffer due to this. Before and after marriage we should give time to new couple for communication with each other and another family member. This method can make good connections between each member of the family.

Freedom.

Freedom is an important part of life and everyone needs that. Some people cannot enjoy his freedom due to some restrictions. Person's behaviour is depends on their family ethics. This ethics create restriction to the newly married couple. Over time we need to accept new things for making comfortable to every family member. Every new couple should respect and follow the good ethics of both family.

No time for family.

Due to various reasons we are unable to give time to our family. Like, being busy with work, different household responsibilities. For this reason, we are unable to give time to our people. And because of this, a quarrel starts in the house. To stop all this, we need to give time to our family. Or we can take time to go for a small picnic. This is good for increasing your communication and refreshment with family to energize your further relation and days.

Work situation.

Everyone has different work working environment, time, targets and situation. Some people not able to give time to their partner due to working pressure and unknowingly person gets angry on family and disturb their own relationship. Therefore, every working person should learn how to handle work and our relationship.

Fear of society.

Human can not live without society. Even person behaviour depends on their society. Some families has too much afraid of their society. They do not allow their daughter-in-law to work outside the home in a precarious financial situation due to fear of society. Due to fear of society, some families still do not allow their daughter in law for further education. Such behavior affects on their marriage. Society and people who are afraid of society need to introspect himself.

Next Part- 3 (Coming Soon.)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 1)

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 1)

Life is very fast. Everyone is busy with their important work. Marriage is a very important part of our life. We swear to take care of each other and live together. Old-fashioned weddings used to be an example. Which used to be with each other throughout life. But what happened now, that today's weddings do not last for a year or even a month and divorce rates increasing day by day. So let's see why today's marital life is not successful. 

Too much Expectations.

Life is all about expectations and whenever your marital life does not meet the expectations then only marital life gets spoiled. Today's generation expects too much from their marriage. They expect a lot of money, house, car and a high standard of living from their partner. Expectations are fine but if they are not fulfilled then do not spoil your marriage by getting angry. They should understand married life is more than what they expected.

Wrong information/ promises.

Some people do not give correct information about themselves while searching for a life partner. Such information directly misleads spouses and their parents and in the future, the fight begins after marriage. It is also not good to make unnecessary and too many promises while fixing marriages. Same thing apply to the promises. Some parents and youth make more promises to their spouses or other parties. When such promises are not fulfilled by the promisor, then fights start in married life. So, don't give wrong information and impossible promises while fixing anyone marriage.

Forceful marriage.

Every parent and youth should understand that forced marriage is not very successful. Whether it is one-sided love or against the child's expectations. Every parent should understand their child's expectations. We should guide them according to their expectations. The reasons behind the desired partner and their expectations should be understood.

Guidance /  Suggestions.

Guidance and suggestions play a very important role while deciding a marriage. Today's generation always ignores such things. Every youth / parent should seek guidance and suggestions from their parents and elder / experienced person while deciding the marriage. Because this is not short time decision. We can get different suggestions from different person and it will always beneficial for our marriage decision and life.

Dowry and unnecessary demands.

Many women are tortured due to dowry and unnecessary demands. Most of the people demanding more than expected while fixing marriage. when such demands not fulfill by female parent then their daughter suffered a lot due to this. If someone demands too much before marriage, do not expect that they will never ask again. So, try to avoid such demanding people. 

Artificial vs. Reality.

Today's generation is very crazy about social media. They try to behave as they see. But they do not know the difference between artificial life and reality. We should see whether our child's expectations are in real life or not. Wrong expectations/ attitude may cause further trouble. We need to improve it at the right time so that the married life of our children or family is happy.

Education & Marriage.

There is no doubt that education is necessary for all. But there is marriage education class not available in the market. If you are more educated then it does not mean that you will spend married life happily. There is no direct relation in between married life and education. With education you can think in various ways and try to sort out the problems. As a result divorce ratio is increasing day by day in educated families.

Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 2)

How To Prepare For Work From Home?

As we know, due to this pandemic we are all under lock down and now some companies give us encouragement to work from home. Just to protect us. By the way, all the companies are working according to the rules of the government. But there is a lot of risk for the safety of its employees. So whenever an employee works from home, how is he ready for work. How should he regulate his work?

Location.

Whenever we work from home, we have to decide the place to sit. A good place to focus on your work is very important. In the same way, we need to keep all the necessary papers or office essentials in one place. So that we can get it at the right time. For this reason, we should choose a place where we can keep everything in our office. The place should be such that you have least difficulty in working. You can choose your desk location near your window for fresh air and clear light.

Seating arrangement.

There are differences between an office and a house chair. Not everyone has good office chairs. Many people are using simple chair in their house because they do not sit in the house for long time like office. For this reason, we may have to face back pain or any other disease. You can use pillow to be comfortable on chair if your chair is very hard.

Refreshment and interval.

Whenever we are working from home, we are a little careless about our interval. We must take intervals to maintain our energy and continue concentration on our work. We must take intervals for tea, coffee, snacks and important things. Also we can follow the 2 minutes break therapy.

Network Connectivity.

Everyone lives in different places. Some people do not get good network connectivity at their home. Everyone is using internet services at home. Whenever it comes to working from home, we need a good network facility. Because all software works at different speeds. Some software can run on simple networks. But to run some software, it is necessary to have good speed and network. Therefore you need an alternative network option to continue your network service. You should check and prepare all these things before starting your work from home. 

Availability of electricity and power backup.

It is very important to have electricity to work from home. Because the inverter is not available in every house. In some places electricity always comes and goes. So at such a time you should arrange your work accordingly or we should manage electricity backup.

Avoid disturbance.

We all know that, at home we not get environment like office. We do not get any disturbance in office like home. In office, we only think about work. While working from home, we get many disturbances such as TV noise, family chat, children's disturbance etc. That's why I said earlier, "We should discuss our work schedule or some rules with our family. We must mentally prepared with such disturbance if it is not avoidable.

Preparation before video conferencing.

While engaging in work from home, you should always be ready for any video conferencing. Because some video conferences are not pre-determined. Before joining conference always shut your video and voice to avoid any unexpected experience.

Balance in family and office scheduled.

It is very important that you should learn to make a balance in your personal and official life. Everyone doesn't has a same family condition. In such a situation, we need to manage the workload and family tension to the best of our ability. 

Family cooperation.

Family support is very important when you are working from home. When you are going to start your work, you should discuss all the topics that you are following in the office with your family. So your family also helps you in your office hours.

Fresh environment.

You should always keep your home environment fresh. Due to this, we will be more happy in our work.

You can use some room freshener, flower pot, some lights for make you energetic in office productive hours. 

Working from home is not easy as we think because by location we can face different challenges and we can handle according to our experience with taking help of our office. The most challenging job is to make a balance between family and office behavior and requirement..

घर से काम की तैयारी कैसे करें?

घर से काम की तैयारी कैसे करें?

जैसे की हम जानते है, इस महामारी के वजहसे हम सब लॉकडाउन है और अभी कुछ कंपनिया हमें घर से काम करने के लिए प्रोत्साहन देती है। सिर्फ हमारे बचाव के लिए।  वैसे तो सभी कंपनिया सरकार के नियमोंके अनुसार ही काम कर रही है। परंतु इसमें अपने कर्मचारिओके सुरक्षाकी बोहोत बड़ी जोखिम है। तो जभी कोई कर्मचारी घरो से काम करते है तो किस तरह वह काम के लिए तैयार हो।  किस तरह वो अपने काम का नियमन करे। 

स्थान।

जब भी हम घर से काम करते है, हमको बैठने का स्थान निश्चित करना जरुरी होता है। अपने काम पर ध्यान देने के लिए एक अच्छी जगह बहुत महत्वपूर्ण है। उसी तरह, हमें सभी आवश्यक कागजात या कार्यालय की आवश्यक चीजों को एक स्थान पर रखने की आवश्यकता है। ताकि हम इसे सही समय पर प्राप्त कर सकें। इस कारण से, हमें एक ऐसी जगह चुननी चाहिए, जहाँ हम अपने कार्यालय की सभी चीजों को रख सकें।  जगह ऐसी होनी चाहिए कि आपको काम करने में कम से कम कठिनाई हो। आप ताजी हवा और साफ रोशनी के लिए अपनी खिड़की के पास अपना डेस्क लोकेशन चुन सकते हैं।

बैठने की व्यवस्था।

एक कार्यालय और एक घर की कुर्सी के बीच अंतर हैं। सभी के पास ऑफिस जैसी अच्छी कुर्सियां नहीं होती। बहुतसे लोग अपने घर में साधारण कुर्सी का उपयोग कर रहे हैं क्योंकि वे कार्यालय की तरह लंबे समय तक घर में नहीं बैठते हैं। इसी वजह से हमें पीठ दर्द या फिर अन्य किसी भी बीमारीका सामना करना पड़ सकता है। कुर्सी पर आरामदायक होने के लिए आप तकिया का उपयोग कर सकते हैं यदि आपकी कुर्सी बहुत सख्त है। 

जलपान और अंतराल।

जब भी हम घर से काम कर रहे होते हैं तो हम आपके अंतराल को लेकर थोड़े लापरवाह होते हैं। हमें अपनी ऊर्जा को बनाए रखने के लिए अंतराल लेना चाहिए और अपने काम पर एकाग्रता जारी रखनी चाहिए। हम चाय, कॉफी, नाश्ता और जरुरी कामो के लिए अंतराल लेना ही चाहिए। 

नेटवर्क कनेक्टिविटी।

हर कोई अलग-अलग स्थान पर रहता है। कुछ लोगों को अपने घर पर अच्छी नेटवर्क कनेक्टिविटी नहीं मिल पाती  है। हर कोई घर पर इंटरनेट सेवाओं का उपयोग कर रहा है। जब भी घर से काम करने की बात आती है, तो हमें एक अच्छी नेटवर्क सुविधा की आवश्यकता होती है। क्योंकि सभी सॉफ्टवेयर अलग अलग स्पीड पे काम करते है। कुछ सॉफ़्टवेयर साधारण नेटवर्क पर चल सकते हैं। लेकिन कुछ सॉफ्टवेयर चलाने के लिए, अच्छी गति और नेटवर्क होना आवश्यक है। इसलिए आपको अपनी नेटवर्क सेवा जारी रखने के लिए वैकल्पिक नेटवर्क विकल्प की आवश्यकता है। घर से अपना काम शुरू करने से पहले आपको इन सभी चीजों की जांच और तैयारी कर लेनी चाहिए।

बिजली की उपलब्धता।।

घर से काम करने के लिए बिजली का होना बहुत जरूरी है। क्योंकि हर घर में इन्वर्टर उपलब्ध नहीं है। कुछ जगहों पर बिजली हमेशा आती और जाती रहती है। तो ऐसे समय आपको उसके अनुसार अपने काम का प्रबंध करना चाहिए। या हमें बिजली बैकअप का प्रबंधन करना चाहिए।

गड़बड़ी से बचें।

हम सभी जानते हैं कि, घर में हमें ऑफिस जैसा माहौल नहीं मिलता है। हमें घर की तरह कार्यालय में कोई गड़बड़ी नहीं मिलती है। ऑफिस में हम केवल काम के बारे में सोचते हैं। घर से काम करते समय हमें बहुत सी गड़बड़ी मिलती है जैसे कि टीवी का शोर, परिवार की चैट, बच्चों की गड़बड़ी आदि। इसीलिए मैंने पहले कहा था, "हमें अपने परिवार के साथ अपने काम शेड्यूल या कुछ नियमों के बारे में चर्चा करनी चाहिए। हमें ऐसी गड़बड़ी से मानसिक रूप से तैयार होना चाहिए, अगर यह टालने योग्य नहीं है।

वीडियो कॉन्फ्रेंसिंग से पहले तैयारी।

घर से काम में शामिल होने के दौरान, आपको किसी भी वीडियो कॉन्फ्रेंसिंग के लिए हमेशा तैयार रहना चाहिए। कुछ वीडियो सम्मेलन पूर्व निर्धारित नहीं होते है। सम्मेलन में शामिल होने से पहले किसी भी अप्रत्याशित अनुभव से बचने के लिए अपने वीडियो और आवाज़ को हमेशा बंद रखें।

परिवार और कार्यालय अनुसूची में संतुलन।

यह बहुत महत्वपूर्ण है कि आपको अपने व्यक्तिगत और आधिकारिक जीवन में संतुलन बनाना सीखना चाहिए। सभी की पारिवारिक स्थिति एक जैसी नहीं है। ऐसी स्थिति में, हमें अपनी क्षमता के अनुसार कार्यभार और पारिवारिक तनाव का प्रबंधन करने की आवश्यकता है।

पारिवारिक सहयोग।

जब आप घर से काम कर रहे हों तो परिवार का सहयोग बहुत महत्वपूर्ण होता है। जब आप अपना काम शुरू करने जा रहे हों, तो आपको उन सभी विषयों पर चर्चा करनी चाहिए जिनका आप अपने परिवार के साथ कार्यालय में अनुसरण कर रहे हैं। तो आपका परिवार भी आपके ऑफिस के समय में आपकी मदद करता है।

ताजा वातावरण।

आप अपने घर के वातावरण को हमेशा ताजा रखना चाइये। इसके कारन हम हमारे काम में ज्यादा खुश रहेंगे। कार्यालय के उत्पादक घंटों में आपको ऊर्जावान बनाने के लिए कुछ रूम फ्रेशनर, फ्लावर पॉट, कुछ लाइट्स का उपयोग कर सकते हैं।

घर से काम करना आसान नहीं है क्योंकि हम सोचते हैं क्योंकि स्थान के अनुसार हम विभिन्न चुनौतियों का सामना कर सकते हैं और हम अपने कार्यालय की मदद लेने के साथ अपने अनुभव के अनुसार संभाल सकते हैं। सबसे चुनौतीपूर्ण काम परिवार और कार्यालय के व्यवहार और आवश्यकता के बीच संतुलन बनाना है।

Why We Are Not A Professional Bike Rider?

We all know that these days people are crazy about bikes. Youth are usually the most crazy. If we talk about youth, they rides a bike like an airplane. Many youth around us die due to an accident. First we need to know why do we lose our children? Who else is responsible for this and how can it be avoided? Why We Are Not A Professional Bike Rider? 

Riding bike without licence.

licence is mandatory for those who ride two wheeler. As we are well aware, some parents teach their children to drive two wheeler at an early age. It is illegal, but they do not care about it and they deliberately motivate their children to ride on the road and the city. Because of this, some children ride bikes without a license at an early age. We have many parents who lost their children due to their negligence.

Not learning from professional bike rider.

Most bike riders learn the bike from their family member or their friend. It's not bad, but whenever we are learning from someone, it should have a government authorized license and we need learners license. When we get a learning license, we should ride a bike with a pillion rider who has a permanent license.

Ignoring signs and symbols (Indications).

Signs and symbols are very important when riding any two wheeler or vehicle. They direct us how to behave next or what are the obstacles ahead. Many people not follow the define indication or rules. this behavior leads to road accident. If we are not following the rule or ignoring its signs and signals, then we do not know importance or we don't want to follow it.

Ignoring seasonal changes.

Seasonal changes is always matters for every two wheeler rider. Because bike riding is skill of balancing and judgement. During the rainy season the chances of skidding of the bike are very high. Visibility in rain also decrease. During the summer season, tire burst, bike fire or dehydration due to high temperature is not avoidable. Foggy climate is very dangerous for every bikers. visibility is always less in this climate. But as per my experience some people does not care of it and meet the accident.

No U Turn.

Not moving slowly on turning point.

This is very important for everyone to move slowly on turning point. But most of the people not follow this ethics. On turning point your visible area is very lesser than straight road. To keep control on your bike we need to understand the the curvature of road and speed very important. Increase in speed is always dangerous on turns.

Wrong side / time / place  Overtake.

Everyone can do these common mistakes. Overtake from the wrong side is common in urban areas. Overtake without indicating in opposite direction vehicle or in rainy season. Overtaking at the turning section, ghats section or when snow falls is going on. These are some mistake we are doing while bike riding.

Not wearing/ applying safety gear and guard.

While we are going for bike riding. We should wear helmets and safety gear which is very important. Our safety equipment must be of a good quality. Some people use very expensive bikes, but they are using very poor safety devices. Some people wear helmet when police standing ahead for helmet check. Some people oppose the compulsion of helmets by making excuses. But they don't know the importance of helmet. Using good quality guards increases our security.

Avoiding regular maintenance of bike.

Regular maintenance of bike is very important as like your health. Regularly we need to check oil, brake, tire air pressure. But we do not. Sometimes we should check more parts of our bike like tire grip, fitting of all small parts. This is very important to keep your bike well stable and for our safety.

Crazy about racing / rash biking. 

Today's youth are too crazy for racing / rash biking. Most of the youth were already dead due to this. Due to their craziness many people feel uncomfortable on the road. Many people feel uncomfortable on the road due to insane bikers madness. This type of bike riding is prohibited everywhere. 

Continues riding for long hours.

If you riding bike is long lasting then it is very dangerous for yourself. Due to the long ride, we may become dehydrated. We may also have pain in bones. Sometimes, we can sleep. After some time, we should take some rest.

Parents responsibility.

Parent role is very important in this situation. Every parent must keep certain limits when giving bikes to their children. Before something bad happens to their children. We need to make our children fully aware of the road rules. Whenever our children want to go with friends, only then we have to define them some rules about time and scheduled. Parents should not give their children a high-powered bike if it is not following proper rules and regulations. High power bikes require good road, full safety guard and good rider.

Individual responsibility.

Yes, it is our personal responsibility to advise our families to follow all these rules. And we should also follow it. We have to motivate each other to follow the road rule. Because this is not the work of any single human being.

We all buy bike, but we cannot spend one percent of those bike for our safety, and that is very sad. One of our mistakes can destroy someone's house. We can save our money for low quality guard but If we lose our precious life or any responsible family members, then who is responsible?

What Are The Reasons Of Domestic Violence?

Hello, "Police, please help me !" Many such calls have been made for help. Domestic violence is the reason behind all this. This proves that domestic violence does not happen in just one country. This is the problem of all the countries. There are various reasons behind it. Like physical, psychological, emotional, sexual and financial. In this lock down domestic violence has increased. Because everyone has lock down inside the home. This is the right time to understand the causes of domestic violence and try to resolve the issue of families.

Dowry.
This is illegal but still continue in some countries. Many people face problems due to dowry fights. As soon as the girl is born, "This is our bad luck!" People who think like this will still meet in many places. Some people still consider girls as a burden. Only because of this dowry. I don't know, when this thinking will change or not.

Lack of belief.
Everyone says that God creates a relationship. But it depends on us how much we trust that relationship. Minor misunderstandings cause controversy in the home. At this time, we simply start looking for other mistakes and this is why domestic violence increases.

Ego.
One more reason is ego. Because of it's also domestic violence happening. Husband-Spouse, father, mother, brother or sister-in-law, ego of any of these can lead to domestic violence.. It depends on that, who controls it in what manner. Sometimes, men dominated families are having such issue.

Old thoughts.
Till date some families are following the old thought. I am not saying that old thoughts are bad but there are some limitations for that. The world is changing day by day, in the same way we can revise our thought till some extend. There is often a difference of opinion between old and new thinking people. Due to this the possibility of domestic violence increases.

Bad Habits.
Yes, bad habits are also causes of domestic violence. Alcohol addiction or bad relationship with the wrong people is also the cause of domestic violence. Due to alcohol, people lose control of themselves and they see all things wrong. Because of friendship with the wrong people, people get wrong advice. Sometimes it gets disturbed due to illegal external affairs. That's why the relations between the people are spoiled.

Independent family.
Even now some families do not have an independent family concept. Peoples are not trying to adjust with joint families. Due to they are demanding / believing individual family concept. Due to today's new thinking people or independent family believer sometimes situation of violence created in the house.

Difference between family rules and regulations.
When two families are come together due to marriage ceremony. Both are having their own rules or regulations. All these things depend on their past. some families are open minded and some are introvert. When introverted family person dealing in open minded family, at that time they are feeling uncomfortable with it. Same things happen with open minded person also.

Own Career and Independence.
Most of the time this is happening with the career addicted person. Those who are not try to adjust with their career. Career is good things but there are lot of things we need to handle while doing career. Independence is very important in life. Whenever we are with our family. Our independence is with our family. Who are not try to adjust with it there are chances of domestic violence are increases.

Lack of Understanding.
This is a very important thing in family relationship. Lack of Understanding. This is a very important thing in our family relationship. Family relationship balanced on understanding of each person of the family. Reduction in understanding of the feeling, their needs and requirement, their problems, goal etc. of our family person. Due to lack of understanding family gets disturb and domestic violence occur in family.

Financial Dispute.
Today's generation tries to be financially independent. This is good but in some cases they do not want to be involved in family financial decisions. Families get upset due to this. Sometimes families do not allow them in financial decision or they are demanding money repeatedly as like dowry. They keep him away from his own earned money. Whenever she raised her voice against it, she suffered from domestic violence.

Delay in finding a solution. 
Whenever we are facing domestic violence, we need to find a solution as soon as possible. As the situation worsens, solutions are not available so easily. Because each person's understanding capacity is reduced and their mind is full of ego, misunderstanding and their behavior is like enemy. Whenever a bad situation occurs, it is very difficult to handle such a situation.

Preventing domestic violence is not so easy. Because it is not in a limited area, it occurs everywhere in the world. With immediate action to find a solution before they go bad we can stop it. Law are not enough to stop this. We need to spread awareness and also try to increase bonding in families.

What We Can Learn From Lockdown?

A strange thing comes from outside and disturb the whole world and all countries are locked down. It seems so easy because everyone was thinking about their holidays. Now we came to know that it is not as easy as we were thinking. Doctors are chasing for survive people, police, engaged in management of this lock down to reduced impact of virus, media try to spread awareness and some uncountable social activist and humans helping people for daily essentials. At this time there is not bar of rich or poor, cast, color and religion. Now every one at same stage of life , whether it is rich or poor. Before going further, I salute those who are directly and indirectly engaged in this war. Also I salute those who are staying at home for their family and their society as well and spreading awareness using by social media. We need to know what we gain from this lock down?

We have a chance to increase our family relationship.
Many relations have already been disturbed in this running life. This is the right opportunity that we can make them very strong by analyzing on that. We have good time to take good decision on that. Also you can take help from your well wisher or senior one to resolve relationship issue. We must take benefit of this lock down to understand our love one and family as well.

We can live without luxury things.
It's a very big thing that we can live without luxuries thing. Like without parties, long drive, functions, office/ long tour, no any office tension, time limitation, targets and no any delay of train, flight, bus, taxi and traffic issue. Today we can learn how to survive ourselves by limited things. We can live an ordinary life. For these we need only bread, cloth, and home.

Self control and peace of mind.
Some people take all these things very easily. In this running life everyone complains about not getting time for himself. This is a good opportunity, which we can control our mind by using it properly. We can learn self control and also calm our disturb mind. We can meditate for self control.

Future plan required.
We can plan the future for our family in this lockdown because as of today everyone has understood that everything we have is not enough for our future. We need more plans for the future. Whatever we have that is not enough to survive our world or any nation. We cannot predict what will happen with and how we will mange things.

Pollution free air and wild life.
Now everything is stop, Factories, transport, crowd, no one wandering along the sea shore, on the road or in wild area. It's like a big pause and due to this pollution gets reduced. Slowly all animals came out on the road and at the human places to enjoy their life. This is a good impact on nature.  This is happened for first time in history .

Only Human can save everyone.
Right now only one human is trying to save another human. Man thinks good or bad of this earth. We are all suffering as a result of some human deeds. That's why I am saying that only humans can save humans. This lockdown brings us opportunity that to save humans. Everyone trying to do that.

There is nothing greater than humanity.
Today we are understanding that, if we want to live on this earth then we must survive each other. This time everyone helps each other. This virus directly and indirectly teach us humanity. We are doing this for our family and society to keep our family, society and human being safe.

Everyone learn how to mange things.
Yes, everyone learn to mange things with the limited sources. Also people learn to adjust with current situation. Entire world is learning how to manage in critical situation and in disaster. This is a best time to learn management whether it is small or big level.

The whole world is trapped in this complex war.
Every country is engaged in protecting their people from this deadly virus. This is a war with invisible things. All country helping each other for coming out from this worst situation. Indirectly humanity is increasing in this world.

It is a test of every human being for humanity.
Human know very well no one can beat the natural power. It's a game of nature and we're a pawn. Always we get chance from our nature. This is indirect test managed by nature to check humanity alive or not.

Whenever human interfere in natural things then something will definitely goes wrong. Today we are feeling the life of animals. I hope that everyone should understand what we can learn from this lockdown.  Let's come together and save this world from this epidemic. Make good use of Lock down. May the public awake, inspire our front warriors and encourage them. Obey the orders of the government for humanity.

Stay Home Stay Safe!

What To Do At Home While Lock Down?

1) Read Books.

2) Play Chess.

3) Mobile games.

4) Family game like (Antakshari).

5) Snake & ladder.

6) General knowledge game.

7) Talk with your old best friends.

8) Try Painting.

9) Play with your children.

10) Play child game.

11) Craft making.

12) Reuse making.

13) Spend time with love one.

14) Play mobile game

15) Clean your home.

16) Arrange your document and files.

17) Change adjustment of home.

18) Learn cooking.

19) Exercise regularly.

20) Do Meditation.

21) Enjoy Bhajan.

22) Listen music.

23) Try to play musical equipment.

24) Check your old memories.

25) Revise your old hobbies.

26) Make your future plan.

27) Make a video call to all friends.

28) Chat with long friend.

29) Help your family.

30) Massage your mom and dad head.

31) Work from home.

32) Search new ideas for your business.

33) Search new job.

34) Get knowledge.

35) Guide importance of lock down.

36) Spread awareness about corona virus.

37) Do whatever you want inside home.

38) Take proper sleep.

39) Enjoy movie at home.

40) Follow your diet plan regularly.

41) Increase your love with family.

What is Corona (COVID-19) Virus?

As we know that, today one big crisis has come all over world. Some people are aware about it.
Every one has some question that, what is corona virus? What are the symptoms? How to take care of it? So, let's understand about corona virus.

What is Corona (COVID-19) Virus?
Corona belongs to virus family and official Name is COV2 and diseases name is COVID-19. May be come from animal illness or human.

When and where its found?
Its found in Dec-2019 at Wuhan city China.

What are the symptoms?
Some common symptoms like  fever, coughing, sneezing, respiratory symptoms, breathing difficulties and body/ muscle pain. In some cases kidney failure and even death.

How its spread?
1) When you come in contact with affected person.
2) When you touch at same location where affected person touched.
3) When you come in contact with that affected person who has traveled from virus affected region.
4) Coughing and sneezing by affected person.

5) While coughing and sneezing droplet falls down on earth. When some one comes in contact with that droplet direct or indirect touching it's spread.

How long its live?
Its depends on Region wise because its live approx 14 to 19 hrs.

In which temperature its alive?
It is vary as per where its fall and in which climate is available. May be approx 50 degree.

How to stop spreading?
1) Regular hand washing.
2) Cover mouth and nose with mask and cloth while coughing and sneezing.
3) Avoid crowd.
4) Cooking meat and eggs.
5) Avoid direct contact with who has symptoms like coughing, sneezing, respiratory problem.
6) Avoid touch to your face without washing hand.
7) Wash your cloths everyday with little sanitize.
8) Avoid public transport if you are affected.
9) we can use Handglove for outside job.

10) we can also maintain isolated object for everyone use.

11) Need to avoid unessential travelling.

12) Keep sanitizer while travelling.

Is it spread by air?

No, it's spread by touching to affected person and object which was touched by affected person.

Which mask type is good for protection?
N95 mask is good and you can use handkerchief, cloths to cover mouth.

Who can wear mask?
Who suffer coughing, sneezing, respiratory problem, that person can use it. For general person not required.

How to remove mask?
You can hold rope of that mask and remove. Don't touch to to upper past of mask.

How to cover coughing and sneezing if I don't have any source?
1) While coughing and sneezing you can bend down immediately, so droplets fall on earth surface.
2) You can also  face mouth and nose using by your elbow. Because we rarely touch this section in a day.

When symptoms are visible?
Approx within 14 days symptoms are visible.

Whom corona is very aggressive ?
Small children, pregnent women, and above 60 age.

Why is it danger and why not?
Yes, it is dangerous, because it's very difficult to identify the normal coughing, sneezing, respiratory symptoms, and affected person. Its live longer approx 14hrs. If you take care properly then no need to afraid of it.

To whome it is affect immediately?

Who has weaker immune system and some old diseases like coughing, sneezing, diabetic patients.

Is it danger to pregnant women?

We can not neglect it, possibility is very higher. But still no such update found.

What are the death percentage?
As per received information death is around 2% only.

Is there any treatment available?
As on date not vaccination or medicine available. Precautions is only one option.

Why mostly focus on hand wash?
Because we are touching lot of objects with our hand. With the hand wash we can stop spreading.

Can we touch face without hand washing?
No, you can not touch without hand washing. If you touch then you are taking risk of it. Its a immediate source to reach inside your body.

What are the psychological effects on human?

Due to continue unnecessary messaging on social media some people gets frustrated. Now people loose hope of living. For regular cold, cough and sneez people afraid. Without reason some people isolate themself.

How to increase immune system?
You can eat well cooked fresh food. You can take fruit juice. Daily exercise is also important. Sufficient sleep and healthy talk.

Can we eat veg and nonveg?

Yes, you can. You must stop half fry concept. Each and every meal should be well boil or coocked. Wash every meat or vegetable properly before cooking.

What is sanitizer and Why required for hand washing?
Sanitizer is a fluid or gel form to kill germs on skin or objects.

Why are government declare holidays to school and colleges?
These is big source to spread this virus. Children not able to follow the rule and college student take it very casually. Small children not understand this immediately.

Why mall, garden, gym, tourist places, worship places closed by government?
Only for public protection. There is high chances of spread this virus due to crowd. Some public not taking seriously.

Why government arrange police force with ambulance?
Some suspected people not co-operate with ambulance for going to isolation ward. That's why government unwillingly sending police with ambulance.

Why isolation required for suspected?
Isolation required due to reduce the spreading this virus. Doctor also take care of it properly.

Why lock down required?
This virus spread due to infected persons physical and object contact only. It's increased like chain marketing. Which has increase immediately using with multiplication formula. This is very danger for public life. If we want to stop this then we need to isolate affected person as well as normal person to stop spreading. People are not taking seriously. Lock down is the only one way to stop spreading. Result is very good. That's why Lock down required.

Why we need to stop this virus as soon as possible?
People are afraid of it. It is affect on each and every business and weather it's small or big. Due to it economic condition of every country is also affecting. Due to increase in frequency of hand and cloth washing its affected on water sources.

So, Be aware, come together in this panic situation, stay fit and stay healthy. Nothing is permanent in this life. So, this time also pass away.

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