Why We Are Not A Professional Bike Rider?

We all know that these days people are crazy about bikes. Youth are usually the most crazy. If we talk about youth, they rides a bike like an airplane. Many youth around us die due to an accident. First we need to know why do we lose our children? Who else is responsible for this and how can it be avoided? Why We Are Not A Professional Bike Rider? 

Riding bike without licence.

licence is mandatory for those who ride two wheeler. As we are well aware, some parents teach their children to drive two wheeler at an early age. It is illegal, but they do not care about it and they deliberately motivate their children to ride on the road and the city. Because of this, some children ride bikes without a license at an early age. We have many parents who lost their children due to their negligence.

Not learning from professional bike rider.

Most bike riders learn the bike from their family member or their friend. It's not bad, but whenever we are learning from someone, it should have a government authorized license and we need learners license. When we get a learning license, we should ride a bike with a pillion rider who has a permanent license.

Ignoring signs and symbols (Indications).

Signs and symbols are very important when riding any two wheeler or vehicle. They direct us how to behave next or what are the obstacles ahead. Many people not follow the define indication or rules. this behavior leads to road accident. If we are not following the rule or ignoring its signs and signals, then we do not know importance or we don't want to follow it.

Ignoring seasonal changes.

Seasonal changes is always matters for every two wheeler rider. Because bike riding is skill of balancing and judgement. During the rainy season the chances of skidding of the bike are very high. Visibility in rain also decrease. During the summer season, tire burst, bike fire or dehydration due to high temperature is not avoidable. Foggy climate is very dangerous for every bikers. visibility is always less in this climate. But as per my experience some people does not care of it and meet the accident.

No U Turn.

Not moving slowly on turning point.

This is very important for everyone to move slowly on turning point. But most of the people not follow this ethics. On turning point your visible area is very lesser than straight road. To keep control on your bike we need to understand the the curvature of road and speed very important. Increase in speed is always dangerous on turns.

Wrong side / time / place  Overtake.

Everyone can do these common mistakes. Overtake from the wrong side is common in urban areas. Overtake without indicating in opposite direction vehicle or in rainy season. Overtaking at the turning section, ghats section or when snow falls is going on. These are some mistake we are doing while bike riding.

Not wearing/ applying safety gear and guard.

While we are going for bike riding. We should wear helmets and safety gear which is very important. Our safety equipment must be of a good quality. Some people use very expensive bikes, but they are using very poor safety devices. Some people wear helmet when police standing ahead for helmet check. Some people oppose the compulsion of helmets by making excuses. But they don't know the importance of helmet. Using good quality guards increases our security.

Avoiding regular maintenance of bike.

Regular maintenance of bike is very important as like your health. Regularly we need to check oil, brake, tire air pressure. But we do not. Sometimes we should check more parts of our bike like tire grip, fitting of all small parts. This is very important to keep your bike well stable and for our safety.

Crazy about racing / rash biking. 

Today's youth are too crazy for racing / rash biking. Most of the youth were already dead due to this. Due to their craziness many people feel uncomfortable on the road. Many people feel uncomfortable on the road due to insane bikers madness. This type of bike riding is prohibited everywhere. 

Continues riding for long hours.

If you riding bike is long lasting then it is very dangerous for yourself. Due to the long ride, we may become dehydrated. We may also have pain in bones. Sometimes, we can sleep. After some time, we should take some rest.

Parents responsibility.

Parent role is very important in this situation. Every parent must keep certain limits when giving bikes to their children. Before something bad happens to their children. We need to make our children fully aware of the road rules. Whenever our children want to go with friends, only then we have to define them some rules about time and scheduled. Parents should not give their children a high-powered bike if it is not following proper rules and regulations. High power bikes require good road, full safety guard and good rider.

Individual responsibility.

Yes, it is our personal responsibility to advise our families to follow all these rules. And we should also follow it. We have to motivate each other to follow the road rule. Because this is not the work of any single human being.

We all buy bike, but we cannot spend one percent of those bike for our safety, and that is very sad. One of our mistakes can destroy someone's house. We can save our money for low quality guard but If we lose our precious life or any responsible family members, then who is responsible?

Why children are not interested in study?

Every parent struggle for their child’s studies. Everytime children do not listen to their parents. Parents always think about how my child does self study. If not then how I will manage to do that. We need to understand reasons behind why child is not taking interest in study.

Interest in study.

Interest is very important thing while studying. You can't do anything without it. When you are interested to do anything that time no one can disturb your focus of study. You must put 100% to complete your study for achieve your academic goal.

Responsibility of student.

Student must understand the responsibility of a student and to become a good human being, to achieve their own goal. Parents must teach them about personal as well as social responsibility. Some students already have some responsibility of their parents or home as an elder child. Because of this they are working somewhere and earning money while studying. In this case they know their responsibilities and these students are the best motivation for other students.

School environment is not good.

Sometimes school environment also matter our children’s interest. Some school don't have much good environment or surrounding and due to this our children don’t take interest in study. Teaching methods is also important part of it. If students don’t understand whatever teacher explains them then children don’t take interest in study.

Too much homework.

Teachers in some schools give too much homework and child don’t take interest to do that. If always they get too much homework then child lose interest from study. Teachers need to give some interesting study topics so that students also take interest in that.

Family environment not good.

Everyone don't have same family background. Some families always live happily, some have lot of restrictions , some parents always fight infront of their children and due to this children lose their interest in study.

Bad friend circle.

In every stage of life we need good friend. If child’s friends are not good then no one can restrict him from bad habits. In some cases friends always keep helping. Most of the friends who are at a good position they have done study together in their school/ college age.

Need some refreshment.

Refreshment is very important because, whenever we are doing same thing again and again we get bore with it. So, every student need some refreshment. Go for long walk, some time picnic, some unseen places.

You don't have technique how to study.

Techniques are very important while studying. How to remember with simple trick or how to remind that. Such techniques are always helpful for student life. Due to unawareness of tricks of how to study student lose their interest from study.

Your concentration is not good.

For concentration meditation is best way. To clean our mind we need this. Student lose their concentration due to various reasons like mobile or social media. They are always attracted towards such things and lose their concentration in study.

Fear of failure and low confidence.

As we know students commit suicide due to fear of failure and some due to low confidence. While doing anything we need confidence because this confidence encourage us to do something. If students don't have confidence in them then this converts into fear. We need to encourage such students.

Lack of guidance.

In our life we always take guidance. Without guidance we can't do anything. Most of the times some poor students don’t get that. Teachers sometime concentrate only on Toppers. Sometimes parents don't have time for their children, family background is not good, uneducated etc. There are many more reasons like this. This is direct indirect reason where students don’t get guidance and lose their interest in studies .

Laziness.

Some students are very lazy. They are not taking interest to do anything. It is very difficult to deal with such students. But as I said after giving some guidance they also take interest in studies.

Importance of study.

Why study is important and what are the benefits of it. We need to teach these benefits to those students. Some students take study casually because of their negligence or they are not aware of its benefits .

I hope every parents gets some idea with above points and also help them to find the actual reason behind this. Parent’s and teacher’s role is very important to help students to increase  their interest in study.

Why Nourishment of Good Ethics Required to Our Children?

Childhood days are always lovely. In this age we learn different things immediately. This is foundation days of our life. How we learn, in which environment we stay, our family behaviour, our educational background etc. and those things matter for our career growth. Why we teach good ethics to our children?

No one can teach bad things.

I know nobody simply think about teaching bad things to their children. Definitely nobody seems to teach bad things. After that how our child learn all those things? Some parents always say we are treating our children very well, after that why he is not behaving properly we are not understanding. There some unknown sources also available in our child sourrounding like entertainment media, friends, some outside social behaviour.

Attraction of bad things.

Children attract everywhere very easily due to its curiosity. Bad things are much attaractive than good things. Healthy food not much good like fast food. Same things happen here our child attract more towards bad thing.

Entertainment media and child.

Today this entertainment media is growing faster. Old days everything was in limit. Whatever shown in media had some limitation and every one watch that only for limited period of time. Now a days everyone have that in his mobile. With that mobile, we don't know what our child learn. Most of the time children learn unnecessary things from it. We must take care of that.

Friends circle.

In every age we need friends. Without friends life is meaningless. But this friend circle need good habits or good behaviour. Because sometimes our child behaviour also depends as per  his friends behaviour. If child's friend circle is not good then we face difficulties in treating our child. We must teach our children the difference between good and bad friend.

Surrounding area.

This is also one more reason which is impacted on our child behaviour or future. But sometime it varies case to case. If we are staying in some dirty area / with people then there are high chances of impact on our child behaviour. If we always teach how to avoid and focus on our work, then such things will definitely help them for their growth.

Seed plantation and child.

When we plant any seed to grow and  become a big tree. For this we are always taking care of that like, giving water, taking care from animals childrens, giving some fertilizers to grow well, whether it's organic or chemicals, sometimes we put some pesticides to kill dirty insects. We do this for long period of time. Same thing we need to do with our children. Bad things immediately catch them. That's why we must take care from those animals (unsocialized people, children), by giving a water and fertilizer (good ethics) and sometime need to take help of pesticides (Cultural literature) to remove bad habbits. 

Why again and again we need to teach good ethics?

As I said earlier, there is no such classes which is teaching bad things. After that, how our child learn those things very easily? Good things take long time to get absorbed and also take time for their effect like ayurvedic medicine, but when its absorbed in mind then it lives longer inside. Our child don't have capacity to understand what is good and bad. As a responsible person/ parents we must struggle a lot for and long time to teach good ethics to our children.

Why Our Child is Angry Bird?

We heard about lot of unwanted things about children. Children gets frustrated, gets angry easily, doing which is not socialized things or some time they are taking extreme step of life like suicide. For minor reason they are taking big risk or you can say creating difficulties for their parents.

Why this is happening?

Anger is a biggest reason behind of it. When something happens against our expectation then we can get angry. If you can say ego then question is, What are the exceptions of our child and how they get egoistic in small age?

Fulfillment of child expectation in early age.
We can fulfill every expectations of our child in early age due to this child gets habitual about that. If you say no afterword then he gets angry. We can always keep some limitation for it. Sometime child need habit of listening "No".

Impact of social media.
In this mobile world child learn lot of unwanted things from social media and try to behave like that. Same things happen with TV serial (mellow drama). He thinks about his own freedom even though they don't have acknowledge about outer world or you can say that understanding capacity. Try to keep away from it with some limitation whenever its possible.

Parents not realizing their financial weakness to the child.
Every parents want to give better life to their children. Parents try to fulfill their child expectations but they don't realize him about financial weakness with this parent gets trapped. Some time child is expecting beyond their limitation and this time he not try to understand their situation. So always keep aware to your children about your financial conditions when its weak.

Copy of other children.
Actually this is a human behavior. Children also try to copy other children while demanding something. Some where else they seen this behavior. Some children do the acting of cry because they know, if they cry then they will get everything. Try to engage such children with diverting subject or object for a while.

Unfulfilled Promises of parent.

Parents always promise their children without thinking and will not get complete. Due to the same children gets angry every time. Whenever you promise your child think once "Can I able to fulfill?" Once you promise then try to complete because this is a matter of belief. They learn from your behavior.

Stress of study.

Study is the one more reasons of stress. Due to heavy study or pressure of parents make them angry. They don't know how to deal with it. Direct or indirectly parent pressurizing to their child about the marks and studies. We must teach some techniques of enjoying study and how to mange all timetable to make it easy.

Comparison with other children.
This is one more mistake parent always do unknowingly. They are comparing their children with other child and because of it child gets angry. We must motivate our child with other examples without comparing other children. Some motivational stories always help in this case.

Break up.

I don't know why children are falling in love weather its not having actual knowledge about it. May be this social media direct or indirect responsible for it. In education age they are doing something unnecessary things. Proper guidance required for our child, about what to do and what not to do in the school and college age.

Lack of sleep.
Today lot of children not taking proper sleep. This is definitely impacting on their behavior. Late night activities on social media, watching movies due to it child not sleeping properly. So we need to follow "Early to bed Early to rise" formula.

Communication.
Today Child and parent communication is reducing day by day due to the various reasons. Child is thinking their parent don't have time for him/her because of it communication gets reduced and misunderstanding increases. Then child gets angry and misbehave with their parents. Family vacation is best option for this. One family vacation will definitely increase this communication.

These are some reasons and due to it child gets angry. It's our responsibility to give a proper guidance on every movement of life. Yoga and meditation is very important part of life to reduced stress and keep ourselves calm. We must teach our child also. When we wake up early morning we listen some silent songs or music which will keep you calm for entire day. Some time anger is required but our child need to learn how to manage and where to implement that to get better benefits from it. Responsibility of parents is very important to understand them.

How To Handle Mobile and Children?

We know very well, Excess of anything is always bad and it's ruled by nature. Today's biggest challenge in front of parents is mobile and children. Some children attack their parents and some are committing suicide. As we know very well mobile is a machine and it is not operated by itself, we are commanding that. But, when we are thinking about children they have their own thinking we can just guide them and may be they will act according to that guidance. Parents are always complaining about their child "My child not leave without mobile!" Now question is "Why child not leave without mobile?" Lets see.

Who is starting this addiction?
Parent make their child habitual about the mobile. Most of the parent showing mobile to their children since age of 0.6 yrs. and some reasons are when child is crying, not eating food, showing colorful videos to keep him engage. Because of it child gets attracted towards mobile like as usual every child's curiosity. So try to avoid this things.

Parent are busy with mobile in front of child.
All parent are busy in their schedule. But we are forget about our children. as I said in old article Parent behavior is impacting on today's generation. This thing apply here. Child is watching their parents who are always engaged with the mobile so children also get attracted as usual. so try to avoid using mobile in front of child. When its necessary try to leave that place for a while.

Try to restrict unwanted things from mobile.
We need to restrict unwanted things from our and child mobile. There are lot of unnecessary clicks opening wrong website, games, videos and personal data or payment apps. Always keep these things password protected.

Visit childs mobile occasionally.
Our child also need privacy but child not understand how is outside world. So try to visit his/her mobile occasionally. Its best way to avoid unnecessary things.

Mobile Gaming.
Mobile Gaming is not only for children anyone can play game in any age. Due to the gaming some suicide cases happened in society. If your child is playing game it's ok, but we need to check how much time he/she has engage with that and how he is reacting after defeat. Because of mobile gaming lot of children getting angry suddenly.

How to identify addiction of mobile and gaming.
Who are spending too much time on mobile or gaming, video shooting, selfie, browsing social media and unnecessarily wasting their time those child are mostly addicted. He/she is not responding while using mobile. While gaming your child breathing is fast or sometime he/she is sweating too much in A.C room also. If condition is more critical then take an advice from expert.

Give them mobile for limited time and at proper age.
Mobile is very important. If child want mobile then give them don't say no, but for limited time only and keep important app password protected. With this trick at least you can understand how much time your child is engaged on it. Sometime you can personally offer your mobile for a while so child will be happy with your unexpected gift.  If you are giving personal mobile to your child then give him how much he actual required and at proper age.

Teach them the benefits and losses of mobile.
Parent must be guide their children about the benefits and losses of mobile. After guidance our child will understand the actual use of mobile. Its definitely beneficial for them.

Go for outdoor gaming with your child.
Try to start outdoor gaming for your child and you can start from yourself. Our child is definitely give positive respond. Try to engage your child with any sport or gymnastic club.

Password is important.
Password is important for all important apps. If your child is handing your mobile then keep your important apps password protected. This is very important practice we must be follow.

I hope now you understand some points about mobile and children. Why its important and how we are making them mobile addicted. How our children are reacted in some situations and how to divert them from it. As a parent we must be keep control on ourselves for mobile using then we will definitely find the changes in child attitude towards mobile.

Responsibility Of Parents.

There are various type of responsibilities in our life. We are playing different roles with it. Like Child, youth, responsible person or citizen, mother, father, uncle, aunty, Grandfather, Grandmother etc.

From all these responsibilities one very important role is parents. We can say multitasker for this role.

Why Multitasker?

In this age Parents are having lot of responsibilities. Like Children, their parents, social and official etc. They are having different behaviour in each responsibility. As we all are aware about handling today children is not an easy task. For older person and their different demands from his son or daughter and about social there are lot of unexplained things are available.

Is parents role more challenging Job then earning Job?
First we need to understand the situation. Before doing earning job we got education then official training but while performing parent job we don't know anything. It's purely depends on past observations of ours or other and older peoples guidance.

Is guidance of older person important while playing this role?
There is no doubt on this because we don't have any education system who is teaching us how to take care of the children. Older persons guidance is always important for keeping our good ethics (Sanskara) alive. We are getting lot of ways while handling child because of it. There are lot of families that live in metro cities who don't like to live with grandparents but they don't know the importance of the guidance.

Good ethics (Sanskara)
Among the all important responsibilities it's on priority. This responsibility of parents not only about our children as well as others also. They are growing with each other and they all are part of good future society. We are blaming others child, if our child behaving wrong but we are not trying to guide him, we are simply suggesting our child don't play with him. Few parent is fighting with other child parent due different kind of issues but they forget about what their children are learning from them.

Educational Responsibility.
Every parents are struggling for their children bright future. Where is our child interested and what is good for his satisfaction and career need to find out first. In some cases parents are taking educational loan for their child education and then expecting him about his job. In this case they are forgetting about dreams of their children.

Social responsibility.
This is very important things need to teach by every parents to their children. But most of the parents failed in this. We are only teaching what to do for earning money and live life, only because of this tendency our children will being selfish. Social responsibility like helping other peoples, playing active role in government or society campaign etc. This is very effective thing for making better human being in society.

Own parents responsibility.
Yes, own parents responsibility. Today's generation not taking care of their own parent due to the various reason. Lot of parents are staying in old age home. They are forgetting that our child also learning all these things. Those parents who spend their entire life for making our life better and today's generation simply forgetting all this things that's why lot of families are disturbed today.

Give them space.
Everyone needs own space of thinking. Our child is not a machine or robot. We need to give them some space for finding his own interest / goal. In every turning point of his life we must be help him for making his dream true.

That's why parents are very important part of the society, who are managing and sacrificing lot of things for our child, society and their parents. Their behavior is impacting on today's generation. They are directors of our society. Their decisions matters a lot.