What Are The Reasons Of Domestic Violence?

Hello, "Police, please help me !" Many such calls have been made for help. Domestic violence is the reason behind all this. This proves that domestic violence does not happen in just one country. This is the problem of all the countries. There are various reasons behind it. Like physical, psychological, emotional, sexual and financial. In this lock down domestic violence has increased. Because everyone has lock down inside the home. This is the right time to understand the causes of domestic violence and try to resolve the issue of families.

Dowry.
This is illegal but still continue in some countries. Many people face problems due to dowry fights. As soon as the girl is born, "This is our bad luck!" People who think like this will still meet in many places. Some people still consider girls as a burden. Only because of this dowry. I don't know, when this thinking will change or not.

Lack of belief.
Everyone says that God creates a relationship. But it depends on us how much we trust that relationship. Minor misunderstandings cause controversy in the home. At this time, we simply start looking for other mistakes and this is why domestic violence increases.

Ego.
One more reason is ego. Because of it's also domestic violence happening. Husband-Spouse, father, mother, brother or sister-in-law, ego of any of these can lead to domestic violence.. It depends on that, who controls it in what manner. Sometimes, men dominated families are having such issue.

Old thoughts.
Till date some families are following the old thought. I am not saying that old thoughts are bad but there are some limitations for that. The world is changing day by day, in the same way we can revise our thought till some extend. There is often a difference of opinion between old and new thinking people. Due to this the possibility of domestic violence increases.

Bad Habits.
Yes, bad habits are also causes of domestic violence. Alcohol addiction or bad relationship with the wrong people is also the cause of domestic violence. Due to alcohol, people lose control of themselves and they see all things wrong. Because of friendship with the wrong people, people get wrong advice. Sometimes it gets disturbed due to illegal external affairs. That's why the relations between the people are spoiled.

Independent family.
Even now some families do not have an independent family concept. Peoples are not trying to adjust with joint families. Due to they are demanding / believing individual family concept. Due to today's new thinking people or independent family believer sometimes situation of violence created in the house.

Difference between family rules and regulations.
When two families are come together due to marriage ceremony. Both are having their own rules or regulations. All these things depend on their past. some families are open minded and some are introvert. When introverted family person dealing in open minded family, at that time they are feeling uncomfortable with it. Same things happen with open minded person also.

Own Career and Independence.
Most of the time this is happening with the career addicted person. Those who are not try to adjust with their career. Career is good things but there are lot of things we need to handle while doing career. Independence is very important in life. Whenever we are with our family. Our independence is with our family. Who are not try to adjust with it there are chances of domestic violence are increases.

Lack of Understanding.
This is a very important thing in family relationship. Lack of Understanding. This is a very important thing in our family relationship. Family relationship balanced on understanding of each person of the family. Reduction in understanding of the feeling, their needs and requirement, their problems, goal etc. of our family person. Due to lack of understanding family gets disturb and domestic violence occur in family.

Financial Dispute.
Today's generation tries to be financially independent. This is good but in some cases they do not want to be involved in family financial decisions. Families get upset due to this. Sometimes families do not allow them in financial decision or they are demanding money repeatedly as like dowry. They keep him away from his own earned money. Whenever she raised her voice against it, she suffered from domestic violence.

Delay in finding a solution. 
Whenever we are facing domestic violence, we need to find a solution as soon as possible. As the situation worsens, solutions are not available so easily. Because each person's understanding capacity is reduced and their mind is full of ego, misunderstanding and their behavior is like enemy. Whenever a bad situation occurs, it is very difficult to handle such a situation.

Preventing domestic violence is not so easy. Because it is not in a limited area, it occurs everywhere in the world. With immediate action to find a solution before they go bad we can stop it. Law are not enough to stop this. We need to spread awareness and also try to increase bonding in families.

घरेलू हिंसा का कारण क्या है?

घरेलू हिंसा का कारण क्या है?
हेलो ,"पुलिस कृपा करके मेरी मदद करो!" ऐसे बहुत सारे कॉल मदद के लिए किये गए है। इस सब के पीछे घरेलू हिंसा का कारण है।  यह बात साबित करती है की, घरेलू हिंसा सिर्फ किसी एक देश में नहीं होती। यह सरे देशोंकी समस्या है।  इसके पीछे कई कारण हैं। जैसे शारीरिक, मानसिक , भावनात्मक, यौन और वित्तीय। इस लॉक डाउन में घरेलू हिंसा बढ़ी है। क्योंकि घर के अंदर हर कोई है। घरेलू हिंसा के कारणों को समझने और परिवारों के मुद्दे को सुलझाने की कोशिश करने का यह सही समय है।

दहेज
यह अवैध है लेकिन फिर भी कुछ देशों में जारी है। दहेज के झगड़े के कारण बहुत से लोगों को समस्याओं का सामना करना पड़ता है। जैसे ही लड़की पैदा होती है, "यह हमारी बुरी किस्मत है!" ऐसा सोचनेवाले वाले लोग अभीभी कई जगहों पर मिलेंगे। अभी भी कुछ लोग लड़कियों को बोझ समझते है। सिर्फ इस दहेज के वजहसे। मुझे पता नहीं, यह सोच बदलेगी या नहीं।

विश्वास की कमी।
हर कोई कहता है कि भगवान एक रिश्ता बनाता है। लेकिन यह हम पर निर्भर करता है कि हम उस रिश्ते पर कितना भरोसा करते हैं। मामूली गलतफहमी घर में विवाद का कारण बनती है। इस समय, हम बस अन्य गलतियों की तलाश शुरू करते हैं और यही कारण है कि घरेलू हिंसा बढ़ जाती है।

अहंकार।
एक और सबसे बड़ा कारण अहंकार है। इसकी वजह घरेलू हिंसा भी है। पति-पत्नी, पिता, माता, भाई या भाभी, इनमें से किसी का भी अहंकार घरेलू हिंसा का कारण बन सकता है। ये उस चीज पर निर्भर करता है की, कौन इसको किस तरीके से नियंत्रित करता है। कभी-कभी, पुरुषों के वर्चस्व वाले परिवारों में इस तरह के मुद्दे होते हैं।

पुराने विचार।
आज तक कुछ परिवार पुरानी सोच का पालन कर रहे हैं। मैं यह नहीं कह रहा हूं कि पुराने विचार बुरे है, लेकिन उसके लिए कुछ सीमाएं हैं। दुनिया दिन-प्रतिदिन बदल रही है, उसी तरह हम कुछ विस्तार तक अपने विचार को संशोधित कर सकते हैं। पुराने और नए सोच के लोगो में अक्सर मत भेद होते है। और इसी के वजह से घरेलु हिंसा होनेकी सभावनाये बढ़ जाती है।

बुरी आदतें।
हां, बुरी आदतें भी घरेलू हिंसा का कारण हैं। शराब की लत या फिर गलत लोगों के साथ संबंध भी घरेलू हिंसा का कारण है। शराब के वजहसे लोग अपने आपका नियंत्रण को खो देते है, और वो  सभी चीजों को गलत नजरियेसे देखते है। गलत लोगों के साथ दोस्ती के वजह से, लोगो को गलत सलाह मिल जाती है। और इसी वजहसे गरेलु सम्बन्ध बिघड जाते है। कभी-कभी बाहरी अनैतिक संबंध के वजह से भी घरेलू हिंसा होती है।

स्वतंत्र परिवार।
अब भी कुछ परिवारों में स्वतंत्र पारिवारिक अवधारणा नहीं है। लोग संयुक्त परिवारों के साथ तालमेल बिठाने की कोशिश नहीं कर रहे हैं। कारण वे व्यक्तिगत पारिवारिक अवधारणा की मांग या विश्वास कर रहे हैं। आज के नए सोच वाले लोंगो के या फिर इंडिपेंडेंट फॅमिली के वजहसे घर में हिंसाचार की स्थिति बन जाती है।

पारिवारिक नियमों और विनियमों के बीच अंतर।
जब शादी समारोह के कारण दो परिवार एक साथ आते हैं। दोनों के अपने नियम या कानून हैं। ये सभी चीजें उनके अतीत पर निर्भर करती हैं। कुछ परिवार खुले विचारों वाले होते हैं और कुछ अंतर्मुखी होते हैं। जब अंतर्मुखी परिवार के व्यक्ति खुले सोच के परिवार में व्यवहार करते हैं, उस समय वे इससे असहज महसूस कर रहे होते हैं। समान बातें खुले सोच वाले व्यक्ति के साथ भी होती हैं।

खुद का कैरियर या स्वतंत्रता।
अधिकांश समय यह कैरियर के आदी व्यक्ति के साथ हो रहा है। जो अपने करियर के साथ तालमेल बिठाने की कोशिश नहीं कर रहे हैं। करियर अच्छी चीजें हैं लेकिन करियर बनाते समय हमें बहुत सी चीजों को ताल मेल करना होगा। जीवन में स्वतंत्रता बहुत महत्वपूर्ण है। जब भी हम अपने परिवार के साथ होते हैं, हमारी स्वतंत्रता हमारे परिवार के साथ होती है। जो इसके साथ समायोजित करने की कोशिश नहीं करते हैं, वही पे घरेलू हिंसा बढ़ने की संभावना है।

समझ की कमी। 
यह हमारे पारिवारिक संबंधों में एक बहुत महत्वपूर्ण बात है। पारिवारिक संबंध परिवार के प्रत्येक व्यक्ति की समझ पर संतुलित है। हमारे परिवार के व्यक्ति की भावना, उनकी जरूरतों और आवश्यकता, उनकी समस्याओं, लक्ष्य आदि की समझ में कमी। परिस्थितिओ और चीजों की समझ के कमी के कारण परिवार में गड़बड़ी हो जाती है और परिवार में घरेलू हिंसा बढ़ जाती है।

वित्तीय विवाद।
आज की पीढ़ी आर्थिक रूप से स्वतंत्र होने की कोशिश करती है। यह अच्छा है लेकिन कुछ मामलों में वे पारिवारिक वित्तीय फैसलों में शामिल नहीं होना चाहते हैं। इसके कारण परिवार परेशान हो जाते हैं। कभी-कभी परिवार उन्हें वित्तीय निर्णय लेने की अनुमति नहीं देते हैं। या वे दहेज की तरह बार-बार पैसे की मांग कर रहे हैं। वे उसे अपने ही कमाए हुए धन से दूर रखते हैं। जब भी उसने इसके खिलाफ आवाज उठाई है वह घरेलू हिंसा से पीड़ित हुई है।

समाधान खोजने में देरी। 
जब भी हम घरेलू हिंसा का सामना कर रहे हैं, हमें जल्द से जल्द एक समाधान खोजने की जरूरत है। जैसे ही स्थिति खराब होती है, समाधान इतनी आसानी से उपलब्ध नहीं होते हैं। क्योंकि प्रत्येक व्यक्ति की समझ क्षमता कम हो जाती है और उनका दिमाग अहंकार, गलतफहमी से भरा होता है और उनका व्यवहार दुश्मन जैसा होता है। जब भी कोई खराब स्थिति होती है, तो ऐसी स्थिति को संभालना बहुत मुश्किल होता है।

घरेलू हिंसा को रोकना इतना आसान नहीं है। क्योंकि यह एक सीमित क्षेत्र में नहीं है, यह दुनिया में हर जगह होता है। इससे पहले कि वे खराब हो जाएं इसका समाधान खोजने के लिए तत्काल कार्रवाई के साथ हम इसे रोक सकते हैं। इसे रोकने के लिए कानून पर्याप्त नहीं हैं। हमें जागरूकता फैलाने की जरूरत है और परिवारों  सम्बंध मजबूत बनाने की भी कोशिश करनी चाहिए।

लॉक डाउन से हम क्या सीख सकते हैं?

लॉक डाउन से हम क्या सीख सकते हैं?

एक अजीब चीज बाहर से आती है और पूरी दुनिया को परेशान करती है। और सभी देश बंद हो जाते हैं। ये बहुत आसान लगता है क्योंकि सभी अपने छुट्टिओंके बारेमे सोच रहे थे। अभी हमें पता चला कि जैसे हम सोच रहे थे उतना ये आसान नहीं है। डॉक्टर लोगों की जान बचानेकी कोशीश कर रहे हैं। पुलिस वायरस के कम प्रभाव के लिए इस लॉक के प्रबंधन में लगे हुए हैं। मीडिया जागरूकता फैलाने की कोशिश करता है और कुछ अनगिनत सामाजिक कार्यकर्ता और मानव लोगों के लिए दैनदिन आवश्यक मदत कर रहे है। इस समय अमीर या गरीब, जाति, रंग और धर्म की पट्टी नहीं है। आगे बढ़ने से पहले मैं उन लोगों को सलाम करता हूं जो इस बड़ी चुनौतियों में प्रत्यक्ष और अप्रत्यक्ष रूप से लगे हुए हैं। इसके अलावा, मैं उन लोगों का भी स्वागत करता हूं, जो अपने परिवार और अपने समाज के लिए घर पर रह रहे हैं और सोशल मीडिया का उपयोग कर प्रचार कर रहे हैं। हमें ये जानना जरुरी है की इस लॉक डाउन से हमें क्या सिख मिली।

हमारे पास अपने पारिवारिक रिश्तो को बढ़ाने का मौका है।

इस दौड़ती जिंदगी में बहुत सारे पारिवारिक संबंध  पहले से ही टूट रहे है। यह सही अवसर है कि हम उस पर विश्लेषण करके उन्हें बहुत मजबूत बना सकते हैं। उस पर अच्छा निर्णय लेने के लिए हमारे पास अच्छा समय है। इसके अलावा आप रिश्ते के मुद्दो को सुलझाने के लिए अपने शुभचिंतक या वरिष्ठ से मदद ले सकते हैं। हमें अपने प्यार और परिवार को समझने के लिए इस लॉकडाउन का फायदा उठाना चाहिए।

हम विलासिता की चीजों के बिना रह सकते हैं।

यह एक बहुत बड़ी बात है कि हम विलासिता की चीजों के बिना रह सकते हैं। पार्टियों के बिना, लंबी ड्राइव, कार्य, कार्यालय / लंबी यात्रा, कार्यालयिन तनाव, समय सीमा,लक्ष्य और ट्रेन, उड़ान, बस, टैक्सी और यातायात के मुद्दो की कोई देरी नहीं। आज हम सीख सकते हैं कि सीमित चीज़ों से खुद को कैसे बचाया जा सकता है। हम एक साधारण जीवन जी सकते हैं। इनके लिए हमें केवल रोटी, कपड़ा और घर चाहिए।

आत्म नियंत्रण और मन की शांति।

कुछ लोग इस सब चीजों को कुछ ज्यादा ही सहजता से लेते है। इस भागती दौड़ती जिंदगी में हर कोई अपने लिए समय नहीं मिलने की शिकायत करता है। यह एक अच्छा अवसर है जिसका सदुपयोग करके हम हमारे मन को नियंत्रीत कर सकते है।  हम आत्म नियंत्रण सीख सकते हैं और अपने परेशान मन को भी शांत कर सकते हैं। हम आत्म नियंत्रण के लिए ध्यान कर सकते हैं।

भविष्य की योजना की आवश्यकता है।

हम इस लॉकडाउन में अपने परिवार के लिए भविष्य की योजना बना सकते हैं। क्योंकि, आज की स्थिति के अनुसार हर कोई यह समझ गया है कि हमारे पास जो कुछ भी है वह हमारे भविष्य के लिए पर्याप्त नहीं है। हमें भविष्य की और योजनाएं चाहिए।

प्रदूषण मुक्त वायु और वन्य जीवन। 

अब सब कुछ बंद हो गया है, कंपनी, परिवहन, भीड़, समुद्र के किनारे या सड़क पर या जंगली क्षेत्र में कोई नहीं भटक रहा है। यह एक बड़े विराम की तरह है और इसके कारण प्रदूषण कम हो गया है। धीरे-धीरे सभी जानवर सड़क पर और मानव स्थानों पर अपने जीवन का आनंद लेने के लिए निकले है। यह प्रकृति पर अच्छा प्रभाव है। शायद इतिहास में पहली बार ऐसा हुआ हो।

केवल मानव ही सभी को बचा सकता है।

अभी केवल एक मानव दूसरे मानव को बचाने की कोशिश कर रहा है। इस पृथ्वी का अच्छा या बुरा मानव सोचता है। कुछ मानव की कर्मों का ही नतीजा हम सब भुगत रहे है। इसलिए मैं कह रहा हूं कि केवल इंसान ही इंसानों को बचा सकता है। यह लॉकडाउन हमें अवसर देता है कि हम मनुष्यों को बचाएं। हर कोई ऐसा करने की कोशिश कर रहा है।

मानवता से बड़ा कुछ नहीं है।

आज हम यह समझ रहे हैं कि, यदि हम इस पृथ्वी पर रहना चाहते हैं तो हमें एक दूसरे को बचाना चाहिए। इस बार हर कोई एक दूसरे की मदद कर रहा है। यह वायरस प्रत्यक्ष और अप्रत्यक्ष रूप से हमें मानवता सिखाता है। हम अपने परिवार और समाज के लिए ऐसा कर रहे हैं। हमारे परिवार, समाज और मानव को सुरक्षित रखने के लिए।

हर कोई चीजों को प्रबंधन करना सीख रहा है।

हां, हर कोई सीमित स्रोतों के साथ चीजों के साथ प्रबंधन करना सीख रहा है। इसके अलावा लोग वर्तमान स्थिति के साथ समायोजित करना सीख रहे है। संपूर्ण दुनिया सीख रही है कि कैसे गंभीर स्थिति और आपदा में प्रबंधन किया जाए। यह प्रबंधन सीखने का सबसे अच्छा समय है चाहे वह छोटा हो या बड़ा।

पूरी दुनिया इस जटिल युद्ध में फंस गई है।

हर देश अपने लोगों को इस घातक वायरस से बचाने में लगा हुआ है। ये लड़ाई उससे है जो आसानी से आंखोको नहीं दिखाई देता। इस खराब स्थिति से बाहर आने के लिए सभी देश एक दूसरे की मदद कर रहे हैं। इस दुनिया में अप्रत्यक्ष रूप से मानवता बढ़ रही है।

यह मानवता के लिए प्रत्येक मनुष्य का प्रत्यक्ष परीक्षण है।
मानव जानता है कि कोई भी प्राकृतिक शक्ति को हरा नहीं सकता है। यह प्रकृति का खेल है और हम एक मोहरा हैं। हमेशा हमें अपने स्वभाव को सुधारनेका मौका मिलता है। यह पृथ्वी पे मानवता  जीवित है या नहीं, इसकी की जाँच करने के लिए प्रकृति द्वारा प्रबंधित किया गया अप्रत्यक्ष परीक्षण है।

जब भी मानव प्राकृतिक चीजों में हस्तक्षेप करता है तो निश्चित रूप से कुछ गलत होता है। आज हम जानवरों के जीवन को महसूस कर रहे हैं। आशा करता हु की सभी लोग समझ गए होंगे की इस लॉक डाउन से हम क्या सिख सकते है। आओ मिलकर इस महामारी से इस दुनिया को बचाएं। लॉक डाउन का अच्छा सदउपयोग करें। जनता जागृत हो जाये, हमारे योद्धाओं को प्रेरित करे और उन्हें प्रोत्साहित करे। और मानवता के लिए सरकार के आदेशों का पालन करें।

घर में रहें और सुरक्षित रहें!

What We Can Learn From Lockdown?

A strange thing comes from outside and disturb the whole world and all countries are locked down. It seems so easy because everyone was thinking about their holidays. Now we came to know that it is not as easy as we were thinking. Doctors are chasing for survive people, police, engaged in management of this lock down to reduced impact of virus, media try to spread awareness and some uncountable social activist and humans helping people for daily essentials. At this time there is not bar of rich or poor, cast, color and religion. Now every one at same stage of life , whether it is rich or poor. Before going further, I salute those who are directly and indirectly engaged in this war. Also I salute those who are staying at home for their family and their society as well and spreading awareness using by social media. We need to know what we gain from this lock down?

We have a chance to increase our family relationship.
Many relations have already been disturbed in this running life. This is the right opportunity that we can make them very strong by analyzing on that. We have good time to take good decision on that. Also you can take help from your well wisher or senior one to resolve relationship issue. We must take benefit of this lock down to understand our love one and family as well.

We can live without luxury things.
It's a very big thing that we can live without luxuries thing. Like without parties, long drive, functions, office/ long tour, no any office tension, time limitation, targets and no any delay of train, flight, bus, taxi and traffic issue. Today we can learn how to survive ourselves by limited things. We can live an ordinary life. For these we need only bread, cloth, and home.

Self control and peace of mind.
Some people take all these things very easily. In this running life everyone complains about not getting time for himself. This is a good opportunity, which we can control our mind by using it properly. We can learn self control and also calm our disturb mind. We can meditate for self control.

Future plan required.
We can plan the future for our family in this lockdown because as of today everyone has understood that everything we have is not enough for our future. We need more plans for the future. Whatever we have that is not enough to survive our world or any nation. We cannot predict what will happen with and how we will mange things.

Pollution free air and wild life.
Now everything is stop, Factories, transport, crowd, no one wandering along the sea shore, on the road or in wild area. It's like a big pause and due to this pollution gets reduced. Slowly all animals came out on the road and at the human places to enjoy their life. This is a good impact on nature.  This is happened for first time in history .

Only Human can save everyone.
Right now only one human is trying to save another human. Man thinks good or bad of this earth. We are all suffering as a result of some human deeds. That's why I am saying that only humans can save humans. This lockdown brings us opportunity that to save humans. Everyone trying to do that.

There is nothing greater than humanity.
Today we are understanding that, if we want to live on this earth then we must survive each other. This time everyone helps each other. This virus directly and indirectly teach us humanity. We are doing this for our family and society to keep our family, society and human being safe.

Everyone learn how to mange things.
Yes, everyone learn to mange things with the limited sources. Also people learn to adjust with current situation. Entire world is learning how to manage in critical situation and in disaster. This is a best time to learn management whether it is small or big level.

The whole world is trapped in this complex war.
Every country is engaged in protecting their people from this deadly virus. This is a war with invisible things. All country helping each other for coming out from this worst situation. Indirectly humanity is increasing in this world.

It is a test of every human being for humanity.
Human know very well no one can beat the natural power. It's a game of nature and we're a pawn. Always we get chance from our nature. This is indirect test managed by nature to check humanity alive or not.

Whenever human interfere in natural things then something will definitely goes wrong. Today we are feeling the life of animals. I hope that everyone should understand what we can learn from this lockdown.  Let's come together and save this world from this epidemic. Make good use of Lock down. May the public awake, inspire our front warriors and encourage them. Obey the orders of the government for humanity.

Stay Home Stay Safe!

What To Do At Home While Lock Down?

1) Read Books.

2) Play Chess.

3) Mobile games.

4) Family game like (Antakshari).

5) Snake & ladder.

6) General knowledge game.

7) Talk with your old best friends.

8) Try Painting.

9) Play with your children.

10) Play child game.

11) Craft making.

12) Reuse making.

13) Spend time with love one.

14) Play mobile game

15) Clean your home.

16) Arrange your document and files.

17) Change adjustment of home.

18) Learn cooking.

19) Exercise regularly.

20) Do Meditation.

21) Enjoy Bhajan.

22) Listen music.

23) Try to play musical equipment.

24) Check your old memories.

25) Revise your old hobbies.

26) Make your future plan.

27) Make a video call to all friends.

28) Chat with long friend.

29) Help your family.

30) Massage your mom and dad head.

31) Work from home.

32) Search new ideas for your business.

33) Search new job.

34) Get knowledge.

35) Guide importance of lock down.

36) Spread awareness about corona virus.

37) Do whatever you want inside home.

38) Take proper sleep.

39) Enjoy movie at home.

40) Follow your diet plan regularly.

41) Increase your love with family.

कोरोना (COVID-19) वायरस क्या है ?

कोरोना वायरस क्या है ?
जैसे की हम  जानते है , आज पुरे जग में एक बड़ी आफत आ  गई है।  कुछ लोग इस बतासे अभीभी परिचित होंगे या नहीं भी  होंगे या नहीं भी हो सकते है।  सभी लोगोके मन में कुछ  सवाल है , क्या है कोरोना ? उसके लक्षण क्या है ? उसके लिए सावधानिया कैसे बरते।  तो आइये जानते है कोरोना वायरस के बारेमे।

कोरोना वायरस क्या है ?

कोरोना ये एक वायरस है  कोवि २ नामसे जाना जाता है। और उसके वजहसे होनेवाला रोग उसे हम कोविद-१९ के नामसे जानते है। शायद यह बीमारी जानवरो या फिर इंसानो से आई है यह आशंका है। 

ये कहा और कभी मिली ?

यह बीमारी चाइना के वुहान शहर में दिसम्बर -२०१९ मिली। 

इसके लक्षण क्या है?

कुछ साधारण दिखनेवाले लक्षण जैसे की, बुखार आना, खासी आना, सर्दी, और सास लेनेमें दिक्कत होना। कुछ में सर दर्द , बदन दर्द। और कुछ मई किडनी  बंद होना और जान जानेकी आशंका है। 

यह कैसे फैलता है ?

 १) आप अगर जिसको हुआ है उनके संपर्क में आते हो। 

२) जिसको हुआ है उस इंसानने किसीभी स्पर्श किए चीज को आपका स्पर्श होनेसेभी हो सकता है। 

३) आप ऐसे इंसान के संपर्क में आते है जो की बीमारी फैले हुए इलाकेसे आया है। 

४) बीमार आदमीके खांसने या छींकनेसे भी यह हो सकता है। 

५) बीमार आदमी के खांसने या छींकनेसे जो छींटे गिरती है, और उससे आपका स्पर्श होता है तो यह फ़ैल सकता है। 

यह कितने देर तक जिन्दा रहता है ?

यह हवामान पे निर्भर करता है। और यह १४ से १९ घंटे तक जिन्दा है। 

यह कोनसे तापमान तक जिन्दा रहता है?

यह अलग जगह पर निर्भर करता है। ज्यादा से ज्यादा ५० डिग्री। 

इसे फ़ैलनेसे कैसे रोके ?

१) हर बार हाथ धोना।

२) खांसने या छींकने के वक्त मास्क या फिर रुमाल या फिर कपडा पकड़ना। 

३) भीड़ भाड़ की जगह नहीं जाना।

४) शाकाहारी और मांसाहारी खाना अछेसे गर्म करके खाना। 

५) बीमार आदमीसे दूर रहना। 

६) आपके कपडे रोज दवाई डालके धो देना। 

७) अपने चेहरेको, कान, नक्, या  मुँह को हाथ नहीं लगाना। 

८) भीड़ वाली वाहनों का पउपयोग न करे। 

९) आप हैंडग्लोव्स का उपयोग कर सकते है। 

१०) अलग वस्तुओका प्रयोग करे। 

११) जरुरत ना होने पे बहार न जाये। 

१२) अपने पास सांइटिज़ेर रखे। 

क्या यह हवासे फैलता है ?

नहीं, यह हवासे नहीं फैलता।

किस प्रकार का मास्क अच्छा है ?

एन ९५ अच्छा है।  हम रुमाल या फिर कपडा भी इस्तेमाल कर सकते है।

किसने मास्क पहनना चाहिए ?
जो आदमी बीमार है और जिसको बुखार, खासी, सर्दी, और सास लेनेमें दिक्कत हो रही हो ऐसे लोगोने पहनना जरुरी है।

मास्क को कैसे निकले ?
मास्क के ऊपरी हिस्से को पकड़ना नहीं है। सिर्फ हमें उसके रस्सी को पकडके निकलना है।

अगर मेरे पास मास्क नहीं है तो मैं किस तरह सर्दी या खासी रोक सकता हु ?
१) सर्दी आतेही आप निचे की तरफ झुके अगर आपके पास कुछ न हो तो। इससे जो भी कीटाणु है वो फर्श पद पड़ेंगे।
२) आप आपकी कोहनी का भी इस्तेमाल कर सकते है। आपकी कोहनी खासते और छींकते वक्त आगे कर ले इससे किसीके ऊपर नहीं जायेगा। और वैसेभी हम सब हाथ के कोहनी को ज्यादातर छूते नहीं है।

 इसके लक्षण कभी दिखते है ?
१४ दिन के भीतर ही इसके लक्षण दिखाई देते है।

ये किसको सबसे ज्यादा जल्दी जकड़ता है ?
छोटे बच्चो , गर्भधारी माता , और ६० के ऊपर वाले लोगो को ज्यादा नुकसान पहुँचता है।

ये धोकादायक क्यों है और क्यों नहीं ?
ये धोखादायक है , क्योकि इसको पता करना इतना आसान नहीं है।  ये कीटाणु १४ घंटे तक जिन्दा रह सकता है।
अगर आप अच्छी तरीकेसे ख्याल रखेंगे तो इससे बचा जा सकता है।

ये किसपे ज्यादा असर करता है ?
जिसको पुराणी सर्दी, खासी या फिर मधुमेह जैसी बीमारी वाले को असर करता है।

कितने प्रतिशत लोगोकी मृत्यु होती है ?
२% लोगोकी मृत्यु होती है।

इसपे कोई दवाई है ?
नहीं इसपे कोई दवाई नहीं है। दवाई की खोज शुरू है।

हाथ धोना क्यों जरुरी है ?
क्यों की हम बहोत सी चीजोंको हाथ लगते है। इससे ये बीमारी फ़ैलनेकी संभावना है।

मानसिक तौर पे क्या असर इंसान पर हो रहा है ?
मानसिक तौर पे लोग डर महसूस कर रहे है। ये जो की बार बार उस बीमारीका जिक्र होता रहता है हर जगह।
साधरण खासी पे भी लोग डरने लगे है। कुछ लोगोने तो खुदको डर के मरे कैद कर लिया है। कुछ लोग जिनेकी आशा छोड़ दी है।

अंधरुनी ताकद को कैसे बढ़ाये ?
ताजा और अच्छा पकाया हुआ खाना खाये। आप फल का रस ले सकते है।  रोजाना व्यायाम करना ना भूले। अच्छी नींद ले।

क्या हम शाहकारी या मांसाहारी खाना खाये?
जी हा, आप खा सकते है। पर सब्जी को अच्छी तरह धो ले। और मांसाहार को भी अच्छी तरह धोके पकाएं।
आधा पकाया हुआ खाना नहीं खाये।

सांइटिज़ेर क्या है और ये हाथ धोने  के लिए क्यों जरुरी है ?
ये के पानी के या गाढ़े जेल की तरह होता है। इसका उपयोग हातो के कीटाणु धोने के लिए और मारने के लिए काम आता है।

सरकारने स्कूल और कॉलेज को छुट्टिया क्यों दी ?
क्योकि, आम तौर पर बचौ को यह बात नहीं समाज आती है। और बच्चे हर बार सभी जगहको हाथ लगाते है। और बड़े बच्चे इस बातको गंभीरता से नहीं लेते।

बड़े दुकान , बगीचा, जिम, पर्यटन स्थल, पूजा स्थल क्यों बंद किये है ?
सिर्फ जनता के बचाव के'लिए। जनता इस बातको गंभीरतासे नहीं ले रही है।

सरकारने अबुलन्स के साथ पुलिस क्यों भेज रही है।
क्योकि कुछ लोग अभी भी इसको गंभीरतासे ना लेते हुए इलाज या फिर चेककिंग के लिए नहीं आ रहे।
ना चाहते हुए भी सरकारको पुलिस का सहारा लेना पड़ रहा है।

संधिग्द को अलगाव क्यों जरुरी है ?
क्योकि हमें इसे रोकना है और है।  और इसकी कोई दवा नहीं है।  सिर्फ ऐसे जगहपे ही इसका इलाज हो सकता है। और लोगो को अलग रखनेसे फैलाव कम किया जा सकता है।

इस वायरस को जल्द से जल्द रोकना जरुरी क्यों है ?
लोग डर रहे है। ये अपने सभी व्यापर असर कर रहा है। ये सभी देशोंकी आर्थिक स्थिति पर असर कर रहा है। जो की भोत घातक है भविष्य के लिए। ज्यादा बार हाथ  और कपडे धोनेसे अपने पानीके स्त्रोत पर भी असर हो।

तो फिर, सतर्क रहे, स्वस्थ रहे और साथ आइये इस मुश्किल घडी में। ये वक्त भी बित जायेगा।

What is Corona (COVID-19) Virus?

As we know that, today one big crisis has come all over world. Some people are aware about it.
Every one has some question that, what is corona virus? What are the symptoms? How to take care of it? So, let's understand about corona virus.

What is Corona (COVID-19) Virus?
Corona belongs to virus family and official Name is COV2 and diseases name is COVID-19. May be come from animal illness or human.

When and where its found?
Its found in Dec-2019 at Wuhan city China.

What are the symptoms?
Some common symptoms like  fever, coughing, sneezing, respiratory symptoms, breathing difficulties and body/ muscle pain. In some cases kidney failure and even death.

How its spread?
1) When you come in contact with affected person.
2) When you touch at same location where affected person touched.
3) When you come in contact with that affected person who has traveled from virus affected region.
4) Coughing and sneezing by affected person.

5) While coughing and sneezing droplet falls down on earth. When some one comes in contact with that droplet direct or indirect touching it's spread.

How long its live?
Its depends on Region wise because its live approx 14 to 19 hrs.

In which temperature its alive?
It is vary as per where its fall and in which climate is available. May be approx 50 degree.

How to stop spreading?
1) Regular hand washing.
2) Cover mouth and nose with mask and cloth while coughing and sneezing.
3) Avoid crowd.
4) Cooking meat and eggs.
5) Avoid direct contact with who has symptoms like coughing, sneezing, respiratory problem.
6) Avoid touch to your face without washing hand.
7) Wash your cloths everyday with little sanitize.
8) Avoid public transport if you are affected.
9) we can use Handglove for outside job.

10) we can also maintain isolated object for everyone use.

11) Need to avoid unessential travelling.

12) Keep sanitizer while travelling.

Is it spread by air?

No, it's spread by touching to affected person and object which was touched by affected person.

Which mask type is good for protection?
N95 mask is good and you can use handkerchief, cloths to cover mouth.

Who can wear mask?
Who suffer coughing, sneezing, respiratory problem, that person can use it. For general person not required.

How to remove mask?
You can hold rope of that mask and remove. Don't touch to to upper past of mask.

How to cover coughing and sneezing if I don't have any source?
1) While coughing and sneezing you can bend down immediately, so droplets fall on earth surface.
2) You can also  face mouth and nose using by your elbow. Because we rarely touch this section in a day.

When symptoms are visible?
Approx within 14 days symptoms are visible.

Whom corona is very aggressive ?
Small children, pregnent women, and above 60 age.

Why is it danger and why not?
Yes, it is dangerous, because it's very difficult to identify the normal coughing, sneezing, respiratory symptoms, and affected person. Its live longer approx 14hrs. If you take care properly then no need to afraid of it.

To whome it is affect immediately?

Who has weaker immune system and some old diseases like coughing, sneezing, diabetic patients.

Is it danger to pregnant women?

We can not neglect it, possibility is very higher. But still no such update found.

What are the death percentage?
As per received information death is around 2% only.

Is there any treatment available?
As on date not vaccination or medicine available. Precautions is only one option.

Why mostly focus on hand wash?
Because we are touching lot of objects with our hand. With the hand wash we can stop spreading.

Can we touch face without hand washing?
No, you can not touch without hand washing. If you touch then you are taking risk of it. Its a immediate source to reach inside your body.

What are the psychological effects on human?

Due to continue unnecessary messaging on social media some people gets frustrated. Now people loose hope of living. For regular cold, cough and sneez people afraid. Without reason some people isolate themself.

How to increase immune system?
You can eat well cooked fresh food. You can take fruit juice. Daily exercise is also important. Sufficient sleep and healthy talk.

Can we eat veg and nonveg?

Yes, you can. You must stop half fry concept. Each and every meal should be well boil or coocked. Wash every meat or vegetable properly before cooking.

What is sanitizer and Why required for hand washing?
Sanitizer is a fluid or gel form to kill germs on skin or objects.

Why are government declare holidays to school and colleges?
These is big source to spread this virus. Children not able to follow the rule and college student take it very casually. Small children not understand this immediately.

Why mall, garden, gym, tourist places, worship places closed by government?
Only for public protection. There is high chances of spread this virus due to crowd. Some public not taking seriously.

Why government arrange police force with ambulance?
Some suspected people not co-operate with ambulance for going to isolation ward. That's why government unwillingly sending police with ambulance.

Why isolation required for suspected?
Isolation required due to reduce the spreading this virus. Doctor also take care of it properly.

Why lock down required?
This virus spread due to infected persons physical and object contact only. It's increased like chain marketing. Which has increase immediately using with multiplication formula. This is very danger for public life. If we want to stop this then we need to isolate affected person as well as normal person to stop spreading. People are not taking seriously. Lock down is the only one way to stop spreading. Result is very good. That's why Lock down required.

Why we need to stop this virus as soon as possible?
People are afraid of it. It is affect on each and every business and weather it's small or big. Due to it economic condition of every country is also affecting. Due to increase in frequency of hand and cloth washing its affected on water sources.

So, Be aware, come together in this panic situation, stay fit and stay healthy. Nothing is permanent in this life. So, this time also pass away.

 All above information collected from different sources to make awareness about this virus.
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Why Mother Is An Ultimate Creativity of Nature?

Everyone love their mother alike me but there are very few people who think about, how much mother suffer during pregnancy and after pregnancy, until entire life. However, today’s generation do not treat their mother properly. May be they do not know how much she suffers before giving birth to them.

Responsibility of both lives.

Everyone has a different responsibility. However, when it comes to mother she has more than that. Because we are taking responsibility of other things but mother has her own responsibility as well as the one who is inside her womb. 9 months, without any excuses she takes care of both. At each and every step she takes care. She keeps some restriction while dealing with situation.

Pain.

No one wants pain in their life whether it’s mental or physical. We are not comfortable with one-day stomach pain but hear our mother faces this pain unlimited times within a day till 9 months. This pain varies from person to person No one can predict about it.

Sleepless night.

We simply cannot bear one night to wake up for few minutes. Our mother spending lot of sleepless nights while in pregnancy because of various reasons. After child’s birth, she faces such situation, which she knows very well.

Psychological changes.

Some of the mother suffer from psychological changes due to changes in body as well as hormonal changes. Some mother face mood swings, and some also face anxiety, depression and fear. 

Physical changes/ Hormone changes.

When we get ill that time we realize that, something is happening in our body and we are not feeling comfortable. When child is developing in her womb that time, there are lot of changes happening in her body, which is physical as well as hormonal changes. Some changes happen with pain or some are with different things, which is not possible to explain. Only mother can understand that.

Continue till some year.

All these things look easy, but who suffer, they know very well. It does not stop after pregnancy, still she face such challenges of physical, psychological, Pain, sleepless nights. Because after coming out from all above challenges still she has some question like, why child wakes up any time? What he wants? Is he hungry? Each day she faces such questions.

Lifelong challenges.

Beyond these things, there are also some challenges in front of her. How to take care of child? How to manage own timetable? If she is working women, How to take care of her own family? She sacrifices for brother, friends, father,mother, husband, children and for entire family.

Some tendencies still kill female child.

Still we have some people, who are killing female child without understanding mother’s heart. When will these people understand the feeling of a mother? Moreover, when it will stop?

With the above points, I am trying to highlight about how much our mother suffer when we are inside her womb. This looks simple, but it is not that much easy as we think. She lives for everyone, but sometimes she forget to live for herself. Why all mothers have melting heart? May be she knows the value of her creativity and that is why I am saying, Mother is an Ultimate Creativity of Nature.

What are the sources available for Education?

Everybody wants to get education to move forward in our life. There are lot of sources available to complete our education. Even some counselling centres are also available in some schools and colleges. You can get good information about how, where, when, why etc. for your study. Each and every answer you can get there. Those who don't have educated family background such students take help from their teacher, parents and friends. But student’s need to understand actual backbone to complete their study. Still we have some students who don't know what sources they have, to complete their study with peace.

Time.

"Time is money", everyone heard this phrase. Every student have sufficient time to complete their study. Students get diverted due to social media or you can say wasting their time to do unnecessary things. Some poor students, who earn money for their education, don't get time to learn. That's why time is required for study / education. For such students who don’t get time for them, distance learning education is available.

Guidance/ information.

Entire life everyone needs guidance. Humans can't do anything without it. Every student and their parent have some question in their mind like, what, why, when, where and how I can complete my / children’s education? Some free guidance centres are also available, even colleges are also providing career guidance. Most of the time students taking guidance form their family member, on whom they believe most, sometime parent decide their child future. Those families are not educated, they take guidance from teacher. You also get such information from news channel and newspaper or some social media. Some newspaper always release some article for student information.

Family support.

Everyone are aware about importance of education. There are very rare cases available where families oppose for their child education.  Most of the time poor families deny for child education due to various reasons. So, Family support is also very important part and best source to complete your education tension free.

Finance.

As per today's education fees structure, finance is very important thing. Because educational fees are increasing day by day. Every family has different capacity of finance. In this case some student take admission in costly school and some families prefer government school/ college as per their financial condition. There is one way to reduce financial burden from your family, that is, "part time job". Part time job can always reduce your financial burden as well as tension of fees.

Earn and Learn scheme.

Those who belong to poor family but have a big goal of education, for such students some university have started this facility called "Earn and Learn". This is very helpful for those who have a big goal but don't have sufficient fund for education or don't want to keep financial burden on their family. This is best opportunity for students to make their educational dream true.

Free hostel and meal.

Some institutions and colleges also provide free hostel facility for students who don't have capacity to pay money for hostel. They are also provided free meal.

Free library.

Those who don't have capacity to buy books, for such student free libraries are also available. Anyone can take benefits of it. Some free study centres are also available. You can use that.

Government Facilities and program.

Every government always provide educational facility and it also conducts some program for poor students to make every citizen literate. You can get all details on internet with little search.

Night and Distance Learning Education.

Now a days every university conduct distance learning program with minimum fees. You can also take benefits of this. Some students work for their family, for such students night School and colleges are also available. But night school / colleges facilities are not available everywhere.

Self Interest.

Without self-interest we can't do anything. We never get depressed when we are interested to do that. Because we can try to find different ways to come out from any worse situation. Our interest always motivates us for education.

Energy/ Health.

In school and college age everyone has lot of energy as well as good health. Both things are very important while taking education. Because of it you can get many solutions. These things keep your mind fresh and create impact on your goal.

I hope you understand, what sources you have, to complete your educational goal. Which source is weak and how to find the way out from that. You just take care of that source which is weaker and with which you can complete your educational goal.

Why children are not interested in study?

Every parent struggle for their child’s studies. Everytime children do not listen to their parents. Parents always think about how my child does self study. If not then how I will manage to do that. We need to understand reasons behind why child is not taking interest in study.

Interest in study.

Interest is very important thing while studying. You can't do anything without it. When you are interested to do anything that time no one can disturb your focus of study. You must put 100% to complete your study for achieve your academic goal.

Responsibility of student.

Student must understand the responsibility of a student and to become a good human being, to achieve their own goal. Parents must teach them about personal as well as social responsibility. Some students already have some responsibility of their parents or home as an elder child. Because of this they are working somewhere and earning money while studying. In this case they know their responsibilities and these students are the best motivation for other students.

School environment is not good.

Sometimes school environment also matter our children’s interest. Some school don't have much good environment or surrounding and due to this our children don’t take interest in study. Teaching methods is also important part of it. If students don’t understand whatever teacher explains them then children don’t take interest in study.

Too much homework.

Teachers in some schools give too much homework and child don’t take interest to do that. If always they get too much homework then child lose interest from study. Teachers need to give some interesting study topics so that students also take interest in that.

Family environment not good.

Everyone don't have same family background. Some families always live happily, some have lot of restrictions , some parents always fight infront of their children and due to this children lose their interest in study.

Bad friend circle.

In every stage of life we need good friend. If child’s friends are not good then no one can restrict him from bad habits. In some cases friends always keep helping. Most of the friends who are at a good position they have done study together in their school/ college age.

Need some refreshment.

Refreshment is very important because, whenever we are doing same thing again and again we get bore with it. So, every student need some refreshment. Go for long walk, some time picnic, some unseen places.

You don't have technique how to study.

Techniques are very important while studying. How to remember with simple trick or how to remind that. Such techniques are always helpful for student life. Due to unawareness of tricks of how to study student lose their interest from study.

Your concentration is not good.

For concentration meditation is best way. To clean our mind we need this. Student lose their concentration due to various reasons like mobile or social media. They are always attracted towards such things and lose their concentration in study.

Fear of failure and low confidence.

As we know students commit suicide due to fear of failure and some due to low confidence. While doing anything we need confidence because this confidence encourage us to do something. If students don't have confidence in them then this converts into fear. We need to encourage such students.

Lack of guidance.

In our life we always take guidance. Without guidance we can't do anything. Most of the times some poor students don’t get that. Teachers sometime concentrate only on Toppers. Sometimes parents don't have time for their children, family background is not good, uneducated etc. There are many more reasons like this. This is direct indirect reason where students don’t get guidance and lose their interest in studies .

Laziness.

Some students are very lazy. They are not taking interest to do anything. It is very difficult to deal with such students. But as I said after giving some guidance they also take interest in studies.

Importance of study.

Why study is important and what are the benefits of it. We need to teach these benefits to those students. Some students take study casually because of their negligence or they are not aware of its benefits .

I hope every parents gets some idea with above points and also help them to find the actual reason behind this. Parent’s and teacher’s role is very important to help students to increase  their interest in study.

Why Nourishment of Good Ethics Required to Our Children?

Childhood days are always lovely. In this age we learn different things immediately. This is foundation days of our life. How we learn, in which environment we stay, our family behaviour, our educational background etc. and those things matter for our career growth. Why we teach good ethics to our children?

No one can teach bad things.

I know nobody simply think about teaching bad things to their children. Definitely nobody seems to teach bad things. After that how our child learn all those things? Some parents always say we are treating our children very well, after that why he is not behaving properly we are not understanding. There some unknown sources also available in our child sourrounding like entertainment media, friends, some outside social behaviour.

Attraction of bad things.

Children attract everywhere very easily due to its curiosity. Bad things are much attaractive than good things. Healthy food not much good like fast food. Same things happen here our child attract more towards bad thing.

Entertainment media and child.

Today this entertainment media is growing faster. Old days everything was in limit. Whatever shown in media had some limitation and every one watch that only for limited period of time. Now a days everyone have that in his mobile. With that mobile, we don't know what our child learn. Most of the time children learn unnecessary things from it. We must take care of that.

Friends circle.

In every age we need friends. Without friends life is meaningless. But this friend circle need good habits or good behaviour. Because sometimes our child behaviour also depends as per  his friends behaviour. If child's friend circle is not good then we face difficulties in treating our child. We must teach our children the difference between good and bad friend.

Surrounding area.

This is also one more reason which is impacted on our child behaviour or future. But sometime it varies case to case. If we are staying in some dirty area / with people then there are high chances of impact on our child behaviour. If we always teach how to avoid and focus on our work, then such things will definitely help them for their growth.

Seed plantation and child.

When we plant any seed to grow and  become a big tree. For this we are always taking care of that like, giving water, taking care from animals childrens, giving some fertilizers to grow well, whether it's organic or chemicals, sometimes we put some pesticides to kill dirty insects. We do this for long period of time. Same thing we need to do with our children. Bad things immediately catch them. That's why we must take care from those animals (unsocialized people, children), by giving a water and fertilizer (good ethics) and sometime need to take help of pesticides (Cultural literature) to remove bad habbits. 

Why again and again we need to teach good ethics?

As I said earlier, there is no such classes which is teaching bad things. After that, how our child learn those things very easily? Good things take long time to get absorbed and also take time for their effect like ayurvedic medicine, but when its absorbed in mind then it lives longer inside. Our child don't have capacity to understand what is good and bad. As a responsible person/ parents we must struggle a lot for and long time to teach good ethics to our children.

Why We Want One More Chance?

Life is all about expectations and human expectations never end. We are struggling for fulfilling our expectations. In this technology world, we have missed some chances of performing. Only one point matters in some case. We are always thinking about that incident and saying, "If I get one more chance then I will perform much better than that!" This thinking makes our hope alive.

Chance of scoring well in academic career.

We judge person based on their academic score. Some parents have such habits but they forget about the interest of our child. Child always struggles for score to prove himself in this market. After getting our score card students try to apply for higher education and then they fail to get admission to become a doctor, engineer and other degree. Because of one point they fail and that time they require once chance to get that point.

Chance of moving ahead and proving yourself.
Every one want this chance to move ahead because of today's deadly rat race. Every one try to defeat other person but, in this race some people are not included. They are racing with their past or themselves only, they want to prove themselves like they are capable to do this. They always keep some challenges in front of them to move ahead or prove themselves and try to find one chance.

Chance of winning the game.

Life is also like one game, where we are playing different roles. When we come to ground game there are some teams which always reach till the last moment of match but because of one second, goal or chance they always lose in matches. These teams put all their effort to win the match but they can't win and this time they always demand one more chance.

Chance of expressing my love towards my parents.

In this busy life we are behaving like machine. Wake up on time, doing everything very fast to reach office on time, after office hours coming back to home to do our routine plan. Due to all these reasons mostly men forget to ask their parents about their health or what they want. We want one chance to express our love towards our parents.

Chance to make better relationship.
Some relationship is disturbed due to our busy schedule. Sometimes we are not giving time to our relationship, due to some misunderstanding our relationship disturb and finally situation worsen, in this case we need one chance to make this relationship much better or to avoid misunderstandings.

Chance of spending more time with my family.
We are always running behind money. While earning money, we forget to spend time with our family children and due to this our family not behaving properly or you can say mentally unstabilized. For children's mental and physical growth parent's attachment and communication is very important. We need one chance to spend our precious time with our family for keeping our family happy.

Chance of rejuvenating my child at young age.

Some people struggle a lot in their childhood or young age due to family financial condition or early age responsibility, they sacrifice everything whatever they want to do at that age. I know this is not possible to go back in childhood, but these people need one chance to feel their childhood age to spend their life happily.

Chance of teaching good ethics to my children.
Mostly parents are thinking like this, while they are staying away from their children in their old age, they are always blaming themselves for this reason. There are various reasons behind this not only this one but sometimes child make big mistake of their life and due to this, his career is spoiled. Every parent must teach good ethics to their children before something goes bad with them or their children.

Chance of correcting and apologize for my mistake.

Every one need this chance because we are human being and we are learning lot of things from out side world. We are learning something new at every stage of our life and while learning we do some mistakes. We feel guilty about some mistakes and we spend our entire life with that guiltiness. We always want to correct and apologize for that mistake. That's why we always need one chance.

Chance of helping others.

In this society some people have a helping nature. These people always try to help others but due to some unconditional reason, they can't. They are not expecting anything from this help, just because of their helping behavior they always find one chance of helping others.

Now we understand why we need one chance in our life. No one is perfect in this life. Every one makes mistake and they must learn from that. Mistake is like a lesson, lesson of how to live in society, how to behave, how to manage things,  how to prove ourselves and how to win in the game of life. In every stage of life we get lot of chances in a different ways. So, don't get upset. We must focus on our goal, our good ethics and believe ourselves.