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| Why Marriages Fail ? (Part- 1) |
Life is very fast. Everyone is busy with their important work. Marriage is a very important part of our life. We swear to take care of each other and live together. Old-fashioned weddings used to be an example. Which used to be with each other throughout life. But what happened now, that today's weddings do not last for a year or even a month and divorce rates increasing day by day. So let's see why today's marital life is not successful.
Too much Expectations.
Life is all about expectations and whenever your marital life does not meet the expectations then only marital life gets spoiled. Today's generation expects too much from their marriage. They expect a lot of money, house, car and a high standard of living from their partner. Expectations are fine but if they are not fulfilled then do not spoil your marriage by getting angry. They should understand married life is more than what they expected.
Wrong information/ promises.
Some people do not give correct information about themselves while searching for a life partner. Such information directly misleads spouses and their parents and in the future, the fight begins after marriage. It is also not good to make unnecessary and too many promises while fixing marriages. Same thing apply to the promises. Some parents and youth make more promises to their spouses or other parties. When such promises are not fulfilled by the promisor, then fights start in married life. So, don't give wrong information and impossible promises while fixing anyone marriage.
Forceful marriage.
Every parent and youth should understand that forced marriage is not very successful. Whether it is one-sided love or against the child's expectations. Every parent should understand their child's expectations. We should guide them according to their expectations. The reasons behind the desired partner and their expectations should be understood.
Guidance / Suggestions.
Guidance and suggestions play a very important role while deciding a marriage. Today's generation always ignores such things. Every youth / parent should seek guidance and suggestions from their parents and elder / experienced person while deciding the marriage. Because this is not short time decision. We can get different suggestions from different person and it will always beneficial for our marriage decision and life.
Dowry and unnecessary demands.
Many women are tortured due to dowry and unnecessary demands. Most of the people demanding more than expected while fixing marriage. when such demands not fulfill by female parent then their daughter suffered a lot due to this. If someone demands too much before marriage, do not expect that they will never ask again. So, try to avoid such demanding people.
Artificial vs. Reality.
Today's generation is very crazy about social media. They try to behave as they see. But they do not know the difference between artificial life and reality. We should see whether our child's expectations are in real life or not. Wrong expectations/ attitude may cause further trouble. We need to improve it at the right time so that the married life of our children or family is happy.
Education & Marriage.
There is no doubt that education is necessary for all. But there is marriage education class not available in the market. If you are more educated then it does not mean that you will spend married life happily. There is no direct relation in between married life and education. With education you can think in various ways and try to sort out the problems. As a result divorce ratio is increasing day by day in educated families.
Excellent ..keep it up
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