Friday, December 13, 2019

Responsibility Of Parents.



There are various type of responsibilities in our life. We are playing different roles with it. Like Child, youth, responsible person or citizen, mother, father, uncle, aunty, Grandfather, Grandmother etc.

From all these responsibilities one very important role is parents. We can say multitasker for this role.

Why Multitasker?
In this age Parents are having lot of responsibilities. Like Children, their parents, social and official etc. They are having different behaviour in each responsibility. As we all are aware about handling today children is not an easy task. For older person and their different demands from his son or daughter and about social there are lot of unexplained things are available.

Is parents role more challenging Job then earning Job?
First we need to understand the situation. Before doing earning job we got education then official training but while performing parent job we don't know anything. It's purely depends on past observations of ours or other and older peoples guidance.

Is guidance of older person important while playing this role?
There is no doubt on this because we don't have any education system who is teaching us how to take care of the children. Older persons guidance is always important for keeping our good ethics (Sanskara) alive. We are getting lot of ways while handling child because of it. There are lot of families that live in metro cities who don't like to live with grandparents but they don't know the importance of the guidance.

Good ethics (Sanskara)
Among the all important responsibilities it's on priority. This responsibility of parents not only about our children as well as others also. They are growing with each other and they all are part of good future society. We are blaming others child, if our child behaving wrong but we are not trying to guide him, we are simply suggesting our child don't play with him. Few parent is fighting with other child parent due different kind of issues but they forget about what their children are learning from them.

Educational Responsibility.
Every parents are struggling for their children bright future. Where is our child interested and what is good for his satisfaction and career need to find out first. In some cases parents are taking educational loan for their child education and then expecting him about his job. In this case they are forgetting about dreams of their children.

Social responsibility.
This is very important things need to teach by every parents to their children. But most of the parents failed in this. We are only teaching what to do for earning money and live life, only because of this tendency our children will being selfish. Social responsibility like helping other peoples, playing active role in government or society campaign etc. This is very effective thing for making better human being in society.

Own parents responsibility.
Yes, own parents responsibility. Today's generation not taking care of their own parent due to the various reason. Lot of parents are staying in old age home. They are forgetting that our child also learning all these things. Those parents who spend their entire life for making our life better and today's generation simply forgetting all this things that's why lot of families are disturbed today.

Give them space.
Everyone needs own space of thinking. Our child is not a machine or robot. We need to give them some space for finding his own interest / goal. In every turning point of his life we must be help him for making his dream true.

That's why parents are very important part of the society, who are managing and sacrificing lot of things for our child, society and their parents. Their behavior is impacting on today's generation. They are directors of our society. Their decisions matters a lot.

9 comments:

  1. Great write up to understand the role of a Parents.. really excellent thoughts...

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  2. Excellent thoughts and very very useful for parents and today's generation

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  3. Very true... Would like to see more

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  4. Really great thoughts and very useful for parents 👏👍

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