I Quit..!!

The one word that "I Quit" and game is over. Where it belongs to playground or our life. On ground game, you can play again but when it comes to life there is no next chance available. Nowadays suicide is easiest way out, solution from all life challenges, or you can say difficulties. Lot of families are already suffering because they are losing their dear ones due to suicide. Some parents lose their single child also. Therefore, we need to understand first why this is happening ?

Who can think?

Most of the time such thinking is found in school age students to old age mind. In child age, we do not have capacity to understand the things. When our mind is developing that time, we understand the surrounding and try to act with their comfort or ours. At this time actual game is starting.

I am not capable.

When anyone facing challenges in their life one very important thing that comes in their mind is “I am not capable to do this”. This is happening because they don’t have knowledge or they don’t want to try only because they have fear of failure. They don’t know about their inner heart.

Every One Blaming Me.

Some people are having habits who are always blaming other people who have a silent personality or physically/ mentally weak. They are not thinking about that person's situation. At this time these people prefer to stay alone and are always thinking about past incident. Most of the time they do not discuss with any one and prefer to stay alone with their own thinking.

Unexpected things happening in surrounding.

Expectation is human personality, but such people are thinking whatever they are expecting must be happened. With this thinking, they are trapping themselves and getting frustrated. They are suddenly getting angry each and every time.

Phobia of others expectation.

Parent are always expect from our child about their own uncompleted dream in his life or about higher ranking in school colleges. Direct or indirect they are putting pressure on their child. Sometimes they are using wrong language or sometimes beating them. Because of this children are living under pressure and getting frustrated.

Too much emotional.

This is another human personality. Some people are too much emotional about their own job, object, relationship or thinking. These people are soft hearted. We can easily identify these people in our area. One word is enough to hurt these people.

Relationship issue (Expectation and Misunderstanding).

Most of the time people expecting too much from their relationship and due to some misunderstanding, suicide case happens in child-parent, husband-wife, mother in law-daughter in law, friends relationship.

Lack of guidance, knowledge and path not found.

Guidance is very important in every stage of our life but such people are not getting this on time and situation is gets worse. Such people are trying to get the knowledge about it to come out from that. When they fail in it, their mind tries to search easy ways like suicide.

Stretching Past pain again.

There are lot of people who are always stuck with their past and unnecessarily taking responsibility that was painful and they do not want to leave this thinking. These thinking always pressurize themselves toward negative mind. Sometimes they hurt themselves again and again.

Losing hopes.

Very important aspect of life is hope. When some people are trying lot of ways in their life like adjusting, sacrifice, guidance, upgrading themselves in every situation but after doing all these things still they do not get satisfied with it. Then no adjustment, sacrifice, guidance, trouble or any tension. The final solution is suicide…...!

How to handle this situation.

We need to understand our child. This is not an easy task to understand the child or any one physiology. However, we can guess what the exceptions are then we can take decision accordingly. All parents must understand our child behavior to reduce too much fear about us. If anyone is afraid of you, he will not try to express his feelings in front of you. Friendly behavior is very important in family or in relationship. We must teach our child or loved ones about the emotional things. How to manage and handle the emotions. How to maintain emotional balance in every situation of life.

How to prepare yourself.

In this mental stage, we must try to upgrade our self with other guidance, opinion or engaging with other activity like playing outdoor games, go for long ride, watch favorite movies, go for a picnic, read jokes, do whatever you want to make yourself happy. Do not stretch the things, try to forgive or forget. There is no point in stretching, it will only hurt you not anyone else. There is always another way / solution available for every difficulties. See the difficulties as a chance of growth. Make yourself positive in various ways. Understand your inner strength. Then see, you will get lot of ways to live life happily because nothing is permanent in this life.

Believe in yourself…!