Wednesday, January 1, 2020

How To Handle Mobile and Children?


We know very well, Excess of anything is always bad and it's ruled by nature. Today's biggest challenge in front of parents is mobile and children. Some children attack their parents and some are committing suicide. As we know very well mobile is a machine and it is not operated by itself, we are commanding that. But, when we are thinking about children they have their own thinking we can just guide them and may be they will act according to that guidance. Parents are always complaining about their child "My child not leave without mobile!" Now question is "Why child not leave without mobile?" Lets see.

Who is starting this addiction?
Parent make their child habitual about the mobile. Most of the parent showing mobile to their children since age of 0.6 yrs. and some reasons are when child is crying, not eating food, showing colorful videos to keep him engage. Because of it child gets attracted towards mobile like as usual every child's curiosity. So try to avoid this things.

Parent are busy with mobile in front of child.
All parent are busy in their schedule. But we are forget about our children. as I said in old article Parent behavior is impacting on today's generation. This thing apply here. Child is watching their parents who are always engaged with the mobile so children also get attracted as usual. so try to avoid using mobile in front of child. When its necessary try to leave that place for a while.

Try to restrict unwanted things from mobile.
We need to restrict unwanted things from our and child mobile. There are lot of unnecessary clicks opening wrong website, games, videos and personal data or payment apps. Always keep these things password protected.

Visit childs mobile occasionally.
Our child also need privacy but child not understand how is outside world. So try to visit his/her mobile occasionally. Its best way to avoid unnecessary things.

Mobile Gaming.
Mobile Gaming is not only for children anyone can play game in any age. Due to the gaming some suicide cases happened in society. If your child is playing game it's ok, but we need to check how much time he/she has engage with that and how he is reacting after defeat. Because of mobile gaming lot of children getting angry suddenly.

How to identify addiction of mobile and gaming.
Who are spending too much time on mobile or gaming, video shooting, selfie, browsing social media and unnecessarily wasting their time those child are mostly addicted. He/she is not responding while using mobile. While gaming your child breathing is fast or sometime he/she is sweating too much in A.C room also. If condition is more critical then take an advice from expert.

Give them mobile for limited time and at proper age.
Mobile is very important. If child want mobile then give them don't say no, but for limited time only and keep important app password protected. With this trick at least you can understand how much time your child is engaged on it. Sometime you can personally offer your mobile for a while so child will be happy with your unexpected gift.  If you are giving personal mobile to your child then give him how much he actual required and at proper age.

Teach them the benefits and losses of mobile.

Parent must be guide their children about the benefits and losses of mobile. After guidance our child will understand the actual use of mobile. Its definitely beneficial for them.

Go for outdoor gaming with your child.
Try to start outdoor gaming for your child and you can start from yourself. Our child is definitely give positive respond. Try to engage your child with any sport or gymnastic club.

Password is important.
Password is important for all important apps. If your child is handing your mobile then keep your important apps password protected. This is very important practice we must be follow.

I hope now you understand some points about mobile and children. Why its important and how we are making them mobile addicted. How our children are reacted in some situations and how to divert them from it. As a parent we must be keep control on ourselves for mobile using then we will definitely find the changes in child attitude towards mobile.

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