Saturday, January 4, 2020

Why Our Child is Angry Bird?


We heard about lot of unwanted things about children. Children gets frustrated, gets angry easily, doing which is not socialized things or some time they are taking extreme step of life like suicide. For minor reason they are taking big risk or you can say creating difficulties for their parents.

Why this is happening?
Anger is a biggest reason behind of it. When something happens against our expectation then we can get angry. If you can say ego then question is, What are the exceptions of our child and how they get egoistic in small age?

Fulfillment of child expectation in early age.
We can fulfill every expectations of our child in early age due to this child gets habitual about that. If you say no afterword then he gets angry. We can always keep some limitation for it. Sometime child need habit of listening "No".

Impact of social media.
In this mobile world child learn lot of unwanted things from social media and try to behave like that. Same things happen with TV serial (mellow drama). He thinks about his own freedom even though they don't have acknowledge about outer world or you can say that understanding capacity. Try to keep away from it with some limitation whenever its possible.

Parents not realizing their financial weakness to the child.
Every parents want to give better life to their children. Parents try to fulfill their child expectations but they don't realize him about financial weakness with this parent gets trapped. Some time child is expecting beyond their limitation and this time he not try to understand their situation. So always keep aware to your children about your financial conditions when its weak.

Copy of other children.
Actually this is a human behavior. Children also try to copy other children while demanding something. Some where else they seen this behavior. Some children do the acting of cry because they know, if they cry then they will get everything. Try to engage such children with diverting subject or object for a while.

Unfulfilled Promises of parent.
Parents always promise their children without thinking and will not get complete. Due to the same children gets angry every time. Whenever you promise your child think once "Can I able to fulfill?" Once you promise then try to complete because this is a matter of belief. They learn from your behavior.

Stress of study.
Study is the one more reasons of stress. Due to heavy study or pressure of parents make them angry. They don't know how to deal with it. Direct or indirectly parent pressurizing to their child about the marks and studies. We must teach some techniques of enjoying study and how to mange all timetable to make it easy.

Comparison with other children.
This is one more mistake parent always do unknowingly. They are comparing their children with other child and because of it child gets angry. We must motivate our child with other examples without comparing other children. Some motivational stories always help in this case.

Break up.
I don't know why children are falling in love weather its not having actual knowledge about it. May be this social media direct or indirect responsible for it. In education age they are doing something unnecessary things. Proper guidance required for our child, about what to do and what not to do in the school and college age.

Lack of sleep.
Today lot of children not taking proper sleep. This is definitely impacting on their behavior. Late night activities on social media, watching movies due to it child not sleeping properly. So we need to follow "Early to bed Early to rise" formula.

Communication.
Today Child and parent communication is reducing day by day due to the various reasons. Child is thinking their parent don't have time for him/her because of it communication gets reduced and misunderstanding increases. Then child gets angry and misbehave with their parents. Family vacation is best option for this. One family vacation will definitely increase this communication.

These are some reasons and due to it child gets angry. It's our responsibility to give a proper guidance on every movement of life. Yoga and meditation is very important part of life to reduced stress and keep ourselves calm. We must teach our child also. When we wake up early morning we listen some silent songs or music which will keep you calm for entire day. Some time anger is required but our child need to learn how to manage and where to implement that to get better benefits from it. Responsibility of parents is very important to understand them.

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