Childhood days are always lovely. In this age we learn different things immediately. This is foundation days of our life. How we learn, in which environment we stay, our family behaviour, our educational background etc. and those things matter for our career growth. Why we teach good ethics to our children?
No one can teach bad things.
I know nobody simply think about teaching bad things to their children. Definitely nobody seems to teach bad things. After that how our child learn all those things? Some parents always say we are treating our children very well, after that why he is not behaving properly we are not understanding. There some unknown sources also available in our child sourrounding like entertainment media, friends, some outside social behaviour.
Attraction of bad things.
Children attract everywhere very easily due to its curiosity. Bad things are much attaractive than good things. Healthy food not much good like fast food. Same things happen here our child attract more towards bad thing.
Entertainment media and child.
Today this entertainment media is growing faster. Old days everything was in limit. Whatever shown in media had some limitation and every one watch that only for limited period of time. Now a days everyone have that in his mobile. With that mobile, we don't know what our child learn. Most of the time children learn unnecessary things from it. We must take care of that.
Friends circle.
In every age we need friends. Without friends life is meaningless. But this friend circle need good habits or good behaviour. Because sometimes our child behaviour also depends as per his friends behaviour. If child's friend circle is not good then we face difficulties in treating our child. We must teach our children the difference between good and bad friend.
Surrounding area.
This is also one more reason which is impacted on our child behaviour or future. But sometime it varies case to case. If we are staying in some dirty area / with people then there are high chances of impact on our child behaviour. If we always teach how to avoid and focus on our work, then such things will definitely help them for their growth.
Seed plantation and child.
When we plant any seed to grow and become a big tree. For this we are always taking care of that like, giving water, taking care from animals childrens, giving some fertilizers to grow well, whether it's organic or chemicals, sometimes we put some pesticides to kill dirty insects. We do this for long period of time. Same thing we need to do with our children. Bad things immediately catch them. That's why we must take care from those animals (unsocialized people, children), by giving a water and fertilizer (good ethics) and sometime need to take help of pesticides (Cultural literature) to remove bad habbits.
Why again and again we need to teach good ethics?
As I said earlier, there is no such classes which is teaching bad things. After that, how our child learn those things very easily? Good things take long time to get absorbed and also take time for their effect like ayurvedic medicine, but when its absorbed in mind then it lives longer inside. Our child don't have capacity to understand what is good and bad. As a responsible person/ parents we must struggle a lot for and long time to teach good ethics to our children.
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